In this practical cool modern era
I feel am not fit to love someone or to be loved by someone because am totally opposite of the trend
*I don’t 🍻 or sm 0 ke
*I never dated someone in real life
*Had only 1 relationship which was totally a long distance relationship
*Have Old school thinking
Demands or wish
What doesn’t matter to me
* Any materialistic factors
From love I mean someone who can love truly purely genuine and who will take it to marriage
Is it too much to expect in this era of cool people
Am I not fit to love because of being emotional
Am so emotional that I just want one single special soul for my life.
Slowly slowly am losing hope of getting one , feeling so lonely and exhausted in the process of finding one special person for life
Everyone just comes, and then disappear by making some excuses, tired of this play which people do in name of love
Your definition of love is vague only feelings doesn’t make love and it’s not about era.
Everyone has different choice, I respect yours but can’t change my choice.
I said vague not choice seems like you need to understand it clearly
And people talk know eachother sometimes it doesn’t workout but it doesn’t mean they are bound for marriage just because they got in relationship it’s process there are stages in relationship last is marriage.
I agree, I totally understand your point, it’s compatibility that gives the motivation to take it to marriage.
Even after compatibility things doesn’t go as we plan like family .
If you know everything why you made this post portraying yourself as victim?
What’s the issue? Am I not allowed to share my feelings 😊
If you have any issue with my post ,you can b lck me or ignore me. thanks for interaction
You can ignore
You won’t get dm 😂 if you are expecting someone going to pity you self proclaimed genuine person I seen many posts like this .
Assume whatever you want, laugh at me , make fun of me, do whatever makes you happy, I leave everything to God and karma. I won’t reply to you anymore, this is my last reply on your comment.
It’s not about karma or make fun of anyone I’m not new on internet anyway my job is done 😂 this trick is old
Bhavna P. @bhavna_pande
I can sense the confusion and complexity you’re navigating in this situation. It’s completely normal to feel torn between your initial connection and the red flags that have surfaced. Your emotions matter, and it’s okay to prioritize your well-being. Relationships often come with challenges, and your feelings are valid.
It’s important to acknowledge that your expectations might differ from the current trends, and that’s perfectly fine. Everyone’s journey is unique. Creating a list to distinguish between your priorities and less critical aspects might offer some clarity. Remember, it’s okay to hold onto the things that truly matter to your heart.
Wishing you strength and understanding,
Psychologist Bhavna Pande