Aa @robust_bean_5
Agreed👍
Sahi kaha aap ne
What if he criticises me when I be honest and always blame the things on me even when I was the one who suffered with whatever happened with me , is it okay for a guy to criticise you for something that happened long ago and he wasn’t there in my life that time as well (the fact that it wasn’t even something really serious , I was the one who got affected by it) threatens me to leave me? , talk bad about me with his friends and trust everyone else around but not me ? , I was once watching my best friend dancing and I was so happy for her, and usi direction mai ek ladka basketball khel raha tha, he blamed me ki I was looking at him and smiling, all the time I was trying to tell him that I can’t love anyone else but him , fir bhi shak karta tha , uska kya?
How was I toxic? And maybe he wasn’t toxic as well but insecure and wasn’t ready for a relationship isn’t it?
I did shared everything about me , and as a result he criticised me , toh kaise aise insaan ke saath choti se choti baatien bhi share kar sake koi? Because kuch hide karne se zada toh mai uske negative thinking se darti thi, after explaining serveral times he would still say so much to me. And yes I did left him kyuki Woh itne lambe relationship khatam hone ke baad bata raha tha mujhe ki he used to like me before I asked him out and was playing hard to get so much 😭 I mean insaan kudh nahi transparent and here me foolish jisne sabh bata diya usse.
I would highly suggest people to open up only after a certain period has passed in the relationship or you would end up like me. Ya toh for pehele achi dosti karo , trust banao or fir relationship mai ao :) peace out….
