In my past , I had a lot of friendships where they used to talk down to me when others were around and especially guys. I didn’t mind it cause most of the time I didn’t even like those guys they did , but it still affected me somehow cause right now I have this friend who doesn’t exactly talk shit about me in front of guys but she says stuff which makes me look stupid and she is really nice when no one else is around… Which is super confusing to me and I am scared that she might turn out to be more like my past friendships but I am just shutting myself saying that it’s all me and that am judging her because of my past experiences
Hey I can be all ears
It’s not like I wanna vent or rant about it , it’s just I want a solution to this problem cause it’s affecting me and am scared cause she is a nice friend over-all except of this thing
Bro first calm down
1) u need to move on from your past
2) tell her about ur past
3) spend some quality time with her or with nature
4) cry it out let it be time will heal u just try not to think about them again
Thanks , am planning to talk to her but I don’t want her to feel judged or something
I think you can simply ask her to not do the things that made you feel uncomfortable right then or just after the situation. It reduces your baggage and if she does the same thing even after you asking her not to…you can remain silent. Take some time for yourself and figure out if she is worth it or not.
I’ll do so , thanks a lot
Mitr jaisa upar ek sajjan ne kaha hai ap waisa kr skti ho
Yes i will
May be she want to being the centre point of attention when people are around that’s why she may intentionally or unintentionally make fun of you . So just ask her not to do that if even after she do that then you should ignore her
Okay thanks , I’ll talk to her
