Rachel D @rachl5
Iām uncertain and irritable about everything these daysā¦ This is clearly not me nd so everyone is noticing it very evidentlyā¦ Iām feeling that Iām changing nd Iām not able to stop itā¦ Iām in one side love nd canāt to anything about it nd I started noticing all these changes in me
A @tripathi
Donāt worry about this as bad changes, just think about them as growth. One time or another in life, we have to face the fact we canāt get everything we want. But surely we can learn from it. This is your growth part, and the reward will come to you at its appropriate time.
Rachel D @rachl5
Yes Iām trying to overcome and forget ā¦ But itās been so long already like 1year and Iām still in same placeā¦ So this is bothering me too much now
A @tripathi
Also the best chance for you to not mess up your brain with your own overnight thoughts is to go ,tell him. If youāre really sure about it, then go tell him. If youāre not sure, then look for answers in yourself and be sure.
Rachel D @rachl5
Thankyou ā¦ But Iām scared if Iāll be able to handle rejectionā¦ I have never been thereā¦ And also our friendship after this will get affected right ?
A @tripathi
Either get away or get together. If the latter doesnāt seem to work, then just stay away, back off. Because staying any longer would be damaging to you.
Donāt just be there with him if youāre not sure. To remove these little feelings get away from him , and meet & know other new people.
A @tripathi
Thereāre obviously fair chances for rejection. Because if he was so sure, you wouldnāt have been thinking too much. Thereād already be signs.
But also, thereāre chances that heās thinking the same.
But facing rejection would be better than living in your brain. Cause then you get to meet new people and not worry about him much.
Rachel D @rachl5
Iāll try to follow this and see how far I can do itā¦ Thankyouš
A @tripathi
I know youāre surely enjoying your time with him but believe me, you donāt want to do something so great that it keeps hurting you afterwards. The friendship is already over if you really have feelings. Because then youāre there just to find a Lil space in his heart.
Donāt think friendship is good for you with the person you love.
Rachel D @rachl5
Iām not enjoying atallā¦ It is so torturous to be around and be in confusion all the timeā¦ Actually I felt few things as signs from his side, then I started having these feelingsā¦ But Iām not sure if they were really signs or I imagined them to be
A @tripathi
Just talk to him. Thatāll solve your troubles. Keeping it to yourself would just make the feelings stronger.
