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Rachel D @rachl5

Iā€™m uncertain and irritable about everything these daysā€¦ This is clearly not me nd so everyone is noticing it very evidentlyā€¦ Iā€™m feeling that Iā€™m changing nd Iā€™m not able to stop itā€¦ Iā€™m in one side love nd canā€™t to anything about it nd I started noticing all these changes in me

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A @tripathi

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Donā€™t worry about this as bad changes, just think about them as growth. One time or another in life, we have to face the fact we canā€™t get everything we want. But surely we can learn from it. This is your growth part, and the reward will come to you at its appropriate time.

Rachel D @rachl5

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Yes Iā€™m trying to overcome and forget ā€¦ But itā€™s been so long already like 1year and Iā€™m still in same placeā€¦ So this is bothering me too much now

A @tripathi

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Also the best chance for you to not mess up your brain with your own overnight thoughts is to go ,tell him. If youā€™re really sure about it, then go tell him. If youā€™re not sure, then look for answers in yourself and be sure.

Rachel D @rachl5

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Thankyou ā€¦ But Iā€™m scared if Iā€™ll be able to handle rejectionā€¦ I have never been thereā€¦ And also our friendship after this will get affected right ?

A @tripathi

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Either get away or get together. If the latter doesnā€™t seem to work, then just stay away, back off. Because staying any longer would be damaging to you.
Donā€™t just be there with him if youā€™re not sure. To remove these little feelings get away from him , and meet & know other new people.

A @tripathi

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Thereā€™re obviously fair chances for rejection. Because if he was so sure, you wouldnā€™t have been thinking too much. Thereā€™d already be signs.
But also, thereā€™re chances that heā€™s thinking the same.

But facing rejection would be better than living in your brain. Cause then you get to meet new people and not worry about him much.

Rachel D @rachl5

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Iā€™ll try to follow this and see how far I can do itā€¦ ThankyoušŸ˜Š

A @tripathi

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I know youā€™re surely enjoying your time with him but believe me, you donā€™t want to do something so great that it keeps hurting you afterwards. The friendship is already over if you really have feelings. Because then youā€™re there just to find a Lil space in his heart.

Donā€™t think friendship is good for you with the person you love.

Rachel D @rachl5

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Iā€™m not enjoying atallā€¦ It is so torturous to be around and be in confusion all the timeā€¦ Actually I felt few things as signs from his side, then I started having these feelingsā€¦ But Iā€™m not sure if they were really signs or I imagined them to be

A @tripathi

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Just talk to him. Thatā€™ll solve your troubles. Keeping it to yourself would just make the feelings stronger.

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