I’m so mad at him because he’s ruining his life. He chronically self sabotages and pushes everything good away, including me. He remains in a job that makes him miserable (having panic attacks, barely can eat, etc.) and he stays living a lifestyle that he hates. He thinks he’s incapable of so many things, when in reality he’s capable. I wish he would get help. Our relationship didn’t have to end. 

Im so worried things are going to get so bad to the point where he can’t handle it anymore. Why does he choose to live in misery, when he could have the world? 

I tried for three years :(. I hope he can make the personal change 

That what he choose, if you love him be there when he need you. If not its better for you to not involve with things he do. 

Breakup

Ok so there is this guy who likes me we were together for a while he treated me like a priceless treasure when I didn't responded to him like he says he did that anyways when we were together there were times he acted so bad like lying to me and Everytime we had a fight or whenever he says shit to me he used to say that I'm sick I got an accident I would die so I always believed him and let that off but once he told me his nose was bleeding and stuff after the mistake and he send me a picture and it was clearly edited like even a blind person could see it it was a red straight line drawn from gallery edit tools anyways that's when my trust begin to waver it continued happening that he told me he was sick gonna die been hospitalized anyways after a few months he literally shouted at me that I don't care about him at all Ihe can live without me and that I'm free to go he literally took me for a person I never imagined to be so I broke up now he is befriending my bbrother  and my mom idk what I. Should since he is putting so much effort I think he only wants me he don't love me anyways any opinions?

3am Thoughts

So , my bf wont talk to my dad about our marriage and says he is scared and have no clue on what to talk and how to start .
On the other he wont say to his mom about our relationship becoz he is saying she wont accept now as his brother has to get married.
I gave him a choice to either talk to his mom or to my dad becoz i was being pressurized to get married as some marriage propasals came.
He didnt want to do either of them so i said lets breakup amd he too said ok.
It hurt me as hell becoz he wuld rather breakup with me and leave me than talking to my dad or his mom about us.
Did i do the right thing ? Or did i make any mistake?
Help me guyzz..

I really want to do breakup i m just done literally done with him but I can’t do breakup every time I try to do it just can’t happen from my side he just say tht he loves me but he is so much involved with him tht he don’t give me time at all and whenever I complain about his behaviour he strts shouting instead of understanding and blame everything on me tht I always complain I don’t understand what to do
I don’t hv friends nd lots of trust issues so tht I can’t talk to stranger and make friends no guy friends strict family never let me go out of the house
I feel sick of this life and why the hell I can’t do breakup I don’t understand in starting he was so good but now i m the one who is putting all the efforts why he is doing this to me 

Boyfriend

Idk
we've been dating for 8 months 
it's long distance 
I don't know a lot about him 
I don't know very little about his family 
Whenever we face time, he's never in his room, always in a park or supermarket or something 
there are issues going on in his family but he never shares anything about it
He hasn't introduced me to any of his friends, he says they're jealous kinda people and he says he likes to keep his dating life private 
whereas my close friends know about us, everything 
we've met once 
he never goes in details about things related to him 
and when I ask anything he simply tries to change the topic of discussion 
And when I genuinely concern about him he says I'm overreacting 
He didn't even put stories and stuff with me, not even on my birthday
He's mostly active on snp, he replies withing seconds even if it's 2 am
and sometimes he doesn't reply for 2 days and when I ask him he says he's been busy and stuck in some work and when I ask him again he just says I'm not trusting him and asking for explanations and am overthinkin 
and one incedent shocked me a bit, on that same day because of thanksgiving I went to get my nails done and I've have my boyfriend's and my pic on lock screen and the nail lady literally told its her sisters boyfriend and she saw them together fr, or he looked similar 
it was sus
Idk
are these red flags or I'm overthinkin 

We broke up because of his family pressure yesterday i went somehow to see him just to know if he still miss me he stare at me until i went away from his sight even though he was looking and at the end of that shop corner while i was giving my sister my hand to help her then i saw him he was still looking at me his face seems so sad by looking at his face for a moment i feel like i could read his face like he still love me and care about me . I wanted to give him smiley face but i was unable to smile at that moment i don't know why i was unable i still love him and care about him . His face seems sad that when he look at me i feel like i wanted to talk but somebody was around him for which is the reason why he couldn't talk with me otherwise he would have talk with me.....i am totally not okay but i am trying to move on but i will wait for him cause i was the one who gave him hope saying i will wait this 5 years until he come back here as soon he is going to japan also . I don't know but i want some miracle to happen as we are contactless now it has been 5 days  

Feeling very helpless & 💔😭. After being dumped & cheated twice, I finally found my true love who knew all my insecurities & trauma. I came into relationship with him only because he assured me we would get married but after dating 8 months he's saying he can't commit to marriage because of his mom's mental health issues which she's suffering from past 2 months.
He has given me a rough idea that if his mother gets back to normal then only he will talk to his parents for our marriage but has told me not to keep any hopes regarding marriage...although he is ready to continue the relationship or breakup only with the condition that I'll not cry alone but I'm dying here , crying my eyes & heart out with the pain of him giving up so easily. 😭😭
He still loves me & keeps a check on me cares for me but I'm completely devastated & shattered knowing the fact that we won't end up together. 

I used to fight a lot with him & I'm not sure if he's just making an excuse to get rid of me or my toxicity has ruined the love he had for me. 

Kindly suggest me what should I do?

1. End the relationship & just stay in touch as friends because it would be really hard to let him go all of a sudden

2. Or shall I just go with the flow & try to win him back with my efforts to correct all wrong I did to him

I'm feeling very suicidal only with the thought of him being a complete stranger to me😭😭😭please help me with your kind words & suggestions🙏🏻

Suicidal Ideation

When she faced a tough time, he was the only one there for her.
He was more worried than her because of her problems.
He loved her more during that phase.
He was in touch everyhour to make her relaxed.

And then, after that phase, when he came to a bad phase, nobody was there for him.
He become needy.
He asked for communication.
He didnt even recieved a bare minimum.
He begged for a 5 mint conversation, she denied.
He become a burden for her.
He become weak, society tought him, men don't cry.
He suppressed all his feelings alone, with a fake smile, crying inside.
Crying alone in room become his habit.
Slowly, he started hating his life.
Still he beg for a little conversation, she replied,  i don't want to talk with you, don't be weak, you are a man.

Yes, I am a man, I meant to be suffer alone.
Only women and pets are loved unconditionally, men will be loved under a condition.

I'm surrounded by a lot of peoples, but I'm alone. I'm feeling loneliness.

But I'm a man. I need to hide all this, and should fake that I'm strong.
Oh, yes, men are strong.

My ex unfollowed my best friend on insta after one year. Does it mean he wants nothing to do w me

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