I’m sad today and I’ve cried often. I think I’m in the beginning stages of getting a divorce from someone I love. He is so unhappy. I have to let him go but I was happy. Now I’ll be unhappy so he can happy. I loved our life together. He has a cat I love that he will take with him. Financially I won’t make my bills on my own. We share ownership of a car too. It’s just so tough. Emotionally. Financially. I don’t feel level. I don’t know how people live through this type of change. I can’t seem to find my footing. How am I supposed to work when the life I built and loved for the last 10 years is crumbling around me?
This is life… it is uncertain and very much of a puzzle. Also what I think is you should focus on the bright side now. People when in relationship tend to forget that they are also an individual who is capable of feeling and doing things. So I guess it’s time for you to leave the regret and sad part of you behind and start to work towards your betterment. I hope you achieve happiness real soon.
Thank you. Easier said then done. Right now it’s all hanging in the balance. Nothing is official. I can’t move forward until he decides what he wants to do. We are still living here together and neither of us has anywhere to go. I don’t want to leave “my” house. And I still want the relationship to work. He has no family and no funds to leave so unless he makes a firm decision and reaches out for help to his family who live over 6 hours away, he will be stuck. He slept in the living room yesterday.
I don’t want him to go. I don’t want to be alone. I’m older and feel like it’ll be harder to bounce back this time.