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⚕️Depression

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Anonymous

im sad and confused , my ex and I have been on and off for a long time and 1 month ago we decided we needed time well I did because I found out he looked for his ex back then and honestly it did hurt me so much yet I can’t manage to hate him I love him so much and I hate it. the other we spoke and we told me that this time will be good for both because we need to heal and because he wants to change because he wants to be what’s best for me and some part of me has hope but then I feel like maybe I should just move on … I need closure and im so lost… I love him so much … what would you guys do ?

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@azar

May be you can wait for a while, and give yourself some time. Wait for things to settle. You can only see ur reflection when water is still.

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Anonymous

I just love him so much to the point I feel like he’s the love of my life and he tells me im his too , im stuck between giving it Time or just have closure and move on…

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Anonymous

I have hope maybe we will find our way back together but then I don’t know …

@azar

Even I am going through a lot and trying to heal, we can talk for a while and discuss

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Anonymous

yes I would love to talk to someone

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Anonymous

I feel so lost and confused

@azar

Just not let your mind play rn, one day at a time. Donot think how you will survive for life

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Anonymous

I do that I take one day at a time I hate that I want to text him and tell him what I feel , but if he doesn’t look for me then I guess that’s a response to all of my questions…

@azar

Just donot involve too much that being this becomes a habit. A reminder that Life is bigger than this. I know at this point of time it would be your biggest misery, but donot let this over shadow your personality. What’s yours will come to you.

@lostinthisworld

thank you , you know I do feel very sad I feel like a part of me is empty and missing but I cant let him control the way I feel I deserve to be happy today is the last day Im sad about it im looking forward and im focusing on me …

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Daytripper @daytripper

Battling the same fight. I love my Gf so much yet I know she would not return the same ever.
I believe the only person who can understand your real worth is only you. Focus on what you want for yourself. I know it is so hard to do it than talking. But have faith in yourself.

@lostinthisworld

then you know how I feel , it sucks because its such a shitty feeling I guess I can only stay with the memories and move on because if he loved me he would show it … thank you so much so sharing this with me its means a lot

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