Ajita @ajita
Iโm really confused as to what exactly my parents want from me, they say something and expect something, moreover Iโm always confused as to what they expect. They get upset with me and donโt talk about what is bothering them. Iโm oversensitive person, it literally spoils my whole day if itโs like this. As well as Iโve moved in with my parents after ages, as I always away from home due to studies and job. I moved here because I got a better job here, but it makes me feel pathetic at timesโฆ Iโve no idea how to deal with this.
Hii Ajita. I think you should sit down and have this conversation with them. You need to firstly realise what YOU yourself want and expect from yourself and then discuss with them about it. Talk to them about what you want and I am sure they will try to understand your point of view. They do care about you and would want the best for you!
Ajita @ajita
Thereโs no conversation, itโs 95% argument 5% impositions. My father was in administrative services, and he behaves with us like an officer at home also. Evertime ordering and expecting his orders to be followed instantly, just like his subordinates did.
