im not sure but i think it's a friend issue in me of being abandoned. i just feel like all my friends dont want to be my friends anymore. i know they have their personal time and all but it just feels so bad to not be heard while im at my worst

but im shy and it was really hard to get new friends :(( especially since i just somewhat got abandoned by my old ones.. im not even sure if im considered their friend at all..

so if this is like a phase then you don't need to worry at all .............but if it's happening for a long time or if its a very strong feeling then you should be open to socializing till you find the right group of friends because the with right friends you shud be feeling very secure and free and yourself

Lost the only two friends I did. They say I Changed because I stopped doing the things I usually did for them when I realised they don't reciprocate my efforts.  Do I go convince them? Or move on with life?

College

I feel like a complete loner... I have friends but are they really my friends given that they don't care about what I have to say???? 


Lonely

man i miss talking with people and socializing i got no friends once so ever anymore its so sad :(

Depression

Recently, i removed some people from my life my closest friends which i dont really like how they treat me. They look down at me, during  birthdays  or occasions i feel like an outcast to them sometimes they would exclude me. So during my birthday i never got gifts or even a surprise which they do to my other friends except me. And i ended my relationship with them and theres this old friend i have who message me how i am and helps me, and motivate me she told me i will find new friends that would truly appreciate me and that day comes i found new friends who truly cares for me, reach out for me and i really really appreciate the little things they did.

Friends

Sometimes I feel people just talk to you because they don't have their best frnd around or busy. But you attached to them. Don't know why people send their family pics when they don't even consider you as your friend. What to think in this condition. @tiredofpeople

Mental Illness

I don't really know where to start from about my problems, probably blaming others would be the best it always is, probably because we don't need to change ourselves when we blame others for the grim in our lives. My friends love to tell me things about myself that I kind of know but never feel like changing, mostly because of my lazy attitude, when I was in school I never thought it in a way that they should accept me like I am, it never bothered me, maybe for like 2 minutes or even less, eventually I started feeling they said those things to shut me up but obviously that never happened for more than 2 minutes, now when I think about it, it's almost like I was trying to invade their group. I never really knew how to make friends in school and even now I don't, we generally share moments with people, feeling the same thing as they do, when we do that unknowingly that's when we make real good friends and bond to some level, I was more like a person who knew the situation if it was sad, bad, happy (I actually hate being happy when everyone has a smile on their face just a default I guess) or whatever but always wanted to be a bit extra just to be cool I guess, I believe that was wrong by me to do, everyone felt the same way and I didn't let them share this moment, I find these things really cringy to be honest, sometimes I did it just to make them think I was different. Sometimes I feel I wasn't around people who were like me maybe I didn't know them very well and I didn't bother asking them when I noticed something about them, sometimes it was because I didn't want to bother them and other because I had this habit of hiding things because I lied, it's an easy answer to pass the question, eventually this lying became a habit because everyone sees it when you're hiding something, yeah so I was kind of a loner in their eyes. It's not like I don't talk to them now but I feel they should've told me that we know "you're hiding" or "you're clearly lying" to my face maybe not that you're hiding part because insecurities, but about lying. This really fucks with your mind, you start believing in those lies and create a person in your head, this just pushes you away from your friends and stops you from growing, to become a better version of yourself, now that I think about it I could have been so much better today if someone told me that and maybe help me change myself even a bit I would definitely have been less lazy and know how to deal with situations better, in which you're supposed to work and not give yourself excuses. That is the biggest problem in life today, being lazy and not doing something you're supposed to do and then later on getting depressed that you didn't do it, and then feel lonely because of all those things, that is definitely the wrong way to think about it but you get sick of yourself, it's like a vicious cycle that breaks you everyday from morning to night. I can tell these things to my friends who are around me now and I don't think they'll find it gay because if someone says it to me I'll definitely find it gay, maybe I need to show more empathy to people around me to get some but this empathy changes everything. At this point of time when I'm in my b.tech third year with a cgpa of 5.4 I don't think empathy is what I need from this world where people show empathy to people who don't have an unshakable will and purpose. I talk to some of my school friends sometimes so that helps and we have now and me obviously :)

Mental Health

I don't know how it feels like having good friends. I never had one. All of them backstabbed and hurt somehow. Now I've shielded myself from such people but, I feel so lonely sometimes. 

Anxiety

Why do my friends always leave me :(( I help them selflessly and still they end up leaving me. They talk to me only when they need me. I have lost my best friends in past few years and this makes me feel so lonely. 🥺 I am left with nobody to talk to.

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