I’m missing my ex so much today, it’s been almost 8 months since I broke up with him, it was brutal. I ended things, he was toxic and manipulative, gave me self harm threats and stuff, was constantly trying to be with me after we broke up, the last he texted me was 4 months ago, I got to know from his ex best friend that he was cheating on me, with multiple people, he wasn’t honest with me, but I miss him today, for quite sometime now, I wanna kiss him and hug him and just spend some time with him. I think I was emotionally attached maybe still am because he made me believe in love. What should I do ?
Thank you… I have moved on, but sometimes the memories hit that’s it, plus I really really loved him, with all my heart, I think it’d have been easier If I didn’t , but I don’t regret a bit
Well most people would say to move on or to find someone else. I find it hard to move on someone that was either your first or someone that you deeply connected with. I would suggest getting a distraction. Something to keep your mind off of him. Find a funny guy, be his friend, go out with girl friends and maybe guy friends, you’ll find more to life that will show you that your ex wasn’t everything that you wanted to liked.
This was really sweet, thank you
As much as you miss him, you have to love yourself first. A relationship is an exchange of love. A person who tries to bring down someone’s self esteem or self love doesn’t match you. There will always be someone who you will match to, and bad luck to you ex if he does care, he’s not good for you. Good luck ☺️
I don’t know where to start really ? All my life I’ve hated myself, the way I looked/thought, it’s only now I’m realising how bad my self esteem has got ! Any idea where or what should I start with when it comes to self love ?
Go to a park, go on a walk, listen to peaceful music, observe everything. Appreciate the world around you. Listens to the birds in the sky, watch the trees move in the wind, watch the waters in the streams. Connect to nature, you’re a part of a beautiful world and when you realize that this world is so vast and full of beautiful things, you’ll come to realize that there are so many different people, all with their own characteristics. Guys with beautiful personalities, guys with ugly personalities, girls with nice personalities or nasty personalities. Start there, and when you heal with what Mother Nature shows you, give humanity another shot.