I’m meeting my boyfriend after more than a month. However, I’m upset at him due to a conversation we had last night and the fact that he’s so late today. We had to go 2 places and he literally called me at 3.15 pm to ask me what the plan is. He has his reasons, he called and explained me but I’m still not okay. I don’t want to spoil our day together. We have tickets booked for a stand up show and we will chill for a while with my dog. But I don’t know how I’ll be okay with him. My mood is off and I don’t feel like going only now. How do I make myself feel better? Is it even in my hands? Shouldn’t he make me feel better? But I know he’ll be like I’ve come so far to meet you and your fighting with me. I don’t know what to do.
Hi there! I am so sorry about your fight woth your bf. I know how that feels. And its okay to be upset. In my opinion, the best thing would be to let him know what upsets you and how his actions are making you feel. Not in an angry way just communicationg with him. I think you should go and see how things are. And maybe he had his reasons for being late, you never know whats going on. Please stay hopeful and try and cheer yourself up. But it is better to talk these things out with him, so you dont get passive agressive. Lots of luck ur way. And i hope you will have a lovely time together.