I’m just feeling so terrible today, I feel like I keep making mistakes. I hate failure, no, I am so afraid of failing. I can’t stop thinking about how much I want to punish myself for failing today. I wonder what this stems from and why it is such an issue to me. Does anyone else fear failing? I mean, I fear lots of things, being late, being impolite…the list goes on and on, I normally go out of my way to avoid these things. I arrive an hour early to every appointment, just in case. I refuse to do specific things just because I think it would be weird or awkward. I won’t play my music about a 4 because I fear other people will be bothered by it. My list and things I do to avoid it is never ending. Today just punched me in the face, and I’m really struggling in how I should react to this.
hello thanks for sharing this
okay i would like to say to you that buddy failing to do something is okay, there’s always a room for improvement for us and also if you try to see a bigger picture of it you will just end up learning something from that failure. failure might put you down at time but we can always learn from it and get up again.
also i wanna say that buddy you don’t always need to please others, you are equally important too and its okay to make mistakes.
don’t be so hard on yourself and maybe try out some relaxation methods like meditation or journaling etc. so that you can calm yourself down and manage your emotions better
take care buddy
surya @surya
Dear brother
Your post reminds me how exactly I’m before 2 years and I wish I can tell you one things. Don’t hate your failure, they are the only friends who taught and shape us perfect. A person who achieve success in the first step can’t think various solutions. But the failure can boost us to do various things in proper manner if we accept it in positive way
And I also suggest you to hate your fear. Life is yours and you can only enjoy your happiness. Don’t consider other thoughts about you. It won’t make positive mind. Live happily. Do what you need to do . make happiness
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