I’m in trouble
I need some advice
I was talking with this guy
I was being all good and nice to him in a friendly platonic way
It was all good
we exchanged no. and all
But
I didn’t know how old he was
2 weeks later I got to know he was 10 years older to me
I started to get a bit uncomfortable with the fact
But I didn’t tell that, because we were just friends, right?
But a week later he ends up confessing that he loves me
Like I was just being nice and kind, and he ends up falling for me
Though I like older guys, because they’re more mature but ten years was a lot and I tried to explain him. I can’t but he just didn’t get it
So I stared maintaining distance
Now we barely talk but he still ends up texting expecting a call or something
I don’t want to block him, it’ll be too rude and anything can happen because he has my number
I don’t know what to do
He’s. toxic and a pedo
rutika @insanity_blue
Well this is a tough situation but I suggest you should try and talk to him again and explain everything calmly but if he still doesn’t understand get help of someone like a friend of yours or someone from your family.
rutika @insanity_blue
That’s why I said to sort it out yourself first if it gets serious then get help
Sanket @sanket
When you said you tried to explain to him, were you very straightforward and crystal clear? Or was it like you dropped hints?
If it wasn’t clear then send a straight forward statement
You should not call the person toxic or a pedo. It’s the conclusion which is not even true. Also, don’t attach maturity to age.
hell YESS
I was freakin clear when I told him I’m not up for this relationship, age might not bother him but it’s a big deal for me
I did drop hints in the beginning then I told him straight up
And don’t come at me for calling him a pedo
like that guy is 10-11 years older to me and about being toxic
you don’t know everything, do you?
So it’s better not to judge anyone because you don’t even know half of the story
And I’m NOT attaching age to maturity but I specified that I like mature guys which is not a case with a lot of guys of my age group hence I always look upto guys who are older to me
Rune @rune02
I totally get ur situation…I also like mature guys…but age difference do matter n in ur situation it does…and honestly there are lots of thing we can’t discus with them…like what’s bothering us…there is nothing wrong with the person…but I know what things are bothering u…I can only suggest to talk to him…abt the things…because avoiding will only lead to misuse of ur no. N all stuff…so talk to him calmly…n I hope he will understand maturely…
Amaya Singh @amaya01
I totally get you because I m also talking to a guy who is like my friend.
But you need to know its not normal if that guy calls you multiple times in different numbers. For example when the guy i m talking crossed a small line. And i stopped him right there. So he knows my boundaries now. So please keep your boundaries.
How old are you both
