I'm in love with my best friend. And I told him. Turns out, he already knew but he says he values our friendship too much to risk getting into a relationship. Also, he likes someone else. I knew that. I'm okay with that. The only thing that makes me sad is that things will never be the same between us again. We will still be friends, but it'll be different... 

That's the tricky part. He's a really good friend and he really cares about me, just not in that way. If I stop talking to him, it'll break his heart :(

And if u keep going like this, won't your heart break? 

I don't know how to be just friends with someone I love, but I do know how to express love for someone - if you want her to feel loved, be there for her, talk to her and make her feel safe in friendship. And then, when she has moved on from the break up, tell her how you feel - it may mess up the friendship but not telling her will just keep hurting you all the time... That's what I did :)

use this to your advantage. I was in a similar place but I told him that I have already moved on from him. That way our friendship became back to normal but right now I m so stuck in it. Even if I want to I can't leave. If he doesn't reciprocate the same energy, move on. He's not worth it. 

I am feeling like a depressed i can't able to sleep properly i am very emotional type of person.. I have 3yrs of relationship in which only i had invest my time and efforts but he don't care about me a single sec when i asked about his time he replied i have a many prblms i am busy.. Literally i am frustrated of all this stuffs. I know this all will be not working..i don't get anything of this relation then also i can't get over of this all.. I don't know what to do now.. When i think about it i felt like headache.. 

3am Thoughts

I am in a happy relationship and want to get married to him. But sometime back we were going through hard times where we decided to take a break and meanwhile I met this guy on social media who eventually fell in love with me. I was clear from the first day of our conversation that I don't want any kind of relationship. We were good as friends. We shared a great bond and had a different comfort level though we never met. But cz of this love thing we stopped talking and then after sometime my bf came back in my life. Now everything is good still I feel like talking to that guy cz I feel we ended a really good bond cz of his affection. I don't know if I should talk to him. Will that affect my current relationship? I am just confused.

Overthinking

#28..........Days passed by and I kinda moved on from Mr. A and mean while Mr. B contacted me few times but I blocked him because I understood he was just trying to use me. He called and texted me few time just to ask if I wanna meet him again and stay the night over at his place. I directly said NO! And said I'm not the kind of girl he thinks I am. I thought of him as a gentleman but he turned out to be disgusting. Funny how men can fake things so effortlessly.  
And throughout this time be it my personal life problems or academic Mr. P always supported me and we kinda became like best friends. I didn't knew about him but I once stated feeling like I was attracted to him but then I brushed off those feelings thinking about my past experiences with men, I didn't have the courage to be hurt again by another guy. So I never told anything about those feelings and kept out friendship going. Moreover he has this situation with another girl going on where is was treated like ab option by the other girl. So it was better if I didn't stir up the mess more..........(to be continued) 

I feel very lost. I broke up with my 5 year old relationship in March and I was in touch with him since then. But I met someone else, I like this person but I think I’m still not over my last relationship.
I’m not coming in the new relationship because I know that will not be fair to the new person I met. And this person understands that I need my time to move on and he is okay with that.
What am I supposed to do in this situation? How should I move on? Am I doing anything wrong?

Breakup

So, I met this guy through arrange marriage meeting and he made it clear that he didn't want to marry this year which was fair enough. i sort of felt comfortable so i thought to give it a shot. Belonging to a conservative family, we are not allowed to meet at least before Roka. However, we met once. The thing is he is outgoing and I'm introvert. Our likes are completely opposite. We didn't exchange numbers but we added each other on instagram. His parents said yes to my parents for this alliance. It was going all good at beginning. He asked me to meet again and i told him clearly about my family regulations. The thing is conversation with him is not stimulating, he said yes but there was lacking efforts from his side. Now, it's been more than a week and we are not talking to each other. I have sent him a message or two but he has left on seen. I don't know where is this thing leading to. The thing is if he has changed his mind i don't want him to be in my life then not even in instagram. What should I do?

Relationships

So... I just started talking to a guy who lives really far away from where I live. He seems nice and kind but I feel like he ignores my messages. Or maybe he's just not that active on social media. I like him but not to an extent where I want to go meet him yet. Cause I feel he only cares for the intimacy and nothing else. He's not giving any sort of hints that it might be something more than just a fling so...what should I do if he asks me to come visit him?

Long Distance Relationship

LOW !! DULL !!

Hi i am 31 yrs old mother of one daughter.I am from small city & now settled in Noida from last 7 yrs.Before marriage i have gone through many rough phases.From beginning I have no aim in my life (like career wise) bt after marriage now I wanted to work in fact I was earning before my daughter.Mow with one of my colleague I have started working in his organisation.
Problem is from last 1 yr I am working with him without any salary(as he just startrd his company & he is from not very rich family) so he have some financial issues.2-3months before we shipped some of our orders & our buyer has not paid him completely.
Now its our 2nd season he wants me to help his new set up & he will clear my all pending dues asap.But now my husband is saying NO to me for work.He is saying why u want to work in free??
I told my husband that he will pay me asap also I have only 2-3 months after that I will sit at home & will do baby sitting(bcz my daughters care taker will soon be going her Hometown for months).I convinced my mother in law so she agreed or else I can say she supported me but my husband re is not happy with me at all.
Today in morning I asked him to drop me to office he refused & asked me to go by myself.Istarted crying.
I alway feel that I don't earn much money.Initially I didn't wanted to work but now cant sit at home.
slo my husband wants me to start business with him, but I know we cant work together.😞😣😐😑

Lonely

Girl always want well settled guys? I always come cross this statement every time. 
I love someone one regardless of anything, religion, money , job. 
I never expecting gift , money from him. Only loyalty , respect and love. 
I’m working as technical engineering and he was driver. 
I’m from Singapore and working here, I met him in India during my tours. And fall in love with him. We are 4 years relationship. He promise me he will married I give everything including my self. During lockdown we unable to meet for 2 years. I have notice some changes in him. Suddenly he avoid me. Saying his family not agree for our marriage. And one day he call me confessed he slept with other girls because we not able to met. Still I forgive him but his ego he was angry because I shouted at him.  He still avoiding me but he kept me in his social media. Always check out my status. Now it’s became a habit for me to post a status for him. I know I’m dumb . I really need out form this. Pls help 

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