Sharing Our Innermost Thoughts

She is ur mom and care abouts you. And worried about you.

You can take help of your father your father will understand you better

Actually I want to pursue Humanities…n even did…i rebelled n got admitted to a very renowned University… I was in the first year college…but they made me drop it…n want me to opt for medical…

My situation is kinda like that disha… staying in home since COVID , but i feel like jailed! I too don’t want disturb her

See this happens a lot, and there’s only one thing to do talk to her, I know that it’ll be hard to explain what you think or what you are thinking, and may be she’ll not understand most of the times. Let’s start with you explaining your mother how you feel about everything just tell her that these things that she’s doing are bothering you so much. The part where you need to do something and she’s not listening to you, let’s say you tell your mother first that what you’re going to tell her, she has to listen it camly then think over it, ask some of her friends, who can tell about that matter and then only the decision has to be made. No offense but parents can be wrong sometimes, and sometimes it becomes our job to tell them that. The world has changed,it has evolved from many things, nothings the same. You’ll have to just explain everything camly. You’ll have to remain calm firstly to do this.

Prove your choices right, safe and healthy … And she will be happy in the end seeing you successful and well. 😊

Hello disha, are you fine mai kehna cha rha tha ke hn hr bar parents sahi nhi hote or mere sath bhi kuch issues hai mgr thode alag hai mgr mai smjh rha hu mai bhi fail ho jata hu graduation iss year mai nai apna 1st year clear kiya hai or mene 2018 mai start kiya tha mere sath bhi issues hai lekin tum apni line mai best do or 100 percent do kyu ke na mai janta hu na tumhare parents ke tum kitna kr sakti ho or hn mene fail hona accept kiya but mgr fight now mai ab kafi thik hu bus disturbed hu

Do one thing if her decisins are valid or if meaning full surrender to her although you don’t like take individual decision one is mother love another aspect is self freedom here

i guess that depends on what aspects of your life she is trying to control. If she wants you to live your life her way completely, than that is wrong but if she is interfering in some more reasonable things than you might need to rethink or need to get advice from someone with more expertise in that area. Like if she wants you to be a Computer Science Engineer and she wants you to do Civil than you need to decide whether she is eligible to give you career advice or not. If she works in that field she may know better than someone else. I have seen so many people telling their children to learn this or that without having knowledge of that particular sector. If your problem is something like that than you should ask someone who has already gone through those phases because i believe experience is a precious gift of life and you should learn from your experiences as well as experiences.of others.

See tum sono chize nhi krti you have to choose tunhe tumhare dreams poore krne hai ya moms ke dreams