Iβm in a relationship but i feel complete by being with myself and i can afford to live happily even after breakup.
Is it my selfishness or self dependency and maturity?
Yes surely i am
abhishek @abhishekdaga
It all depends where you see yourself in future with him or on your own.
But itβs not what i asked for!
What you asked for is not valid until you find yourself in that situation.
Im in that situation only
Itβs good to be self satisfied. You donβt need a person anyways. But everyone has got good and bad days. If your partner genuinely loves and cares for you, pampers you I am sure you will love him/her more.
Though love brings 100 other stuffs (good and bad) with it but get into relationship only and only if you feel you should.
This is the only sensible answer Iβve received till now thank u :))
Donβt overthink but think before you take any stepβ¦ Like breakup or try falling in love
Yes surely!
This is maturity.
Please you are one in a million sane person.
Do not let the programming of current generation make you judge yourself.
We are brainwashed as a generation that love is eternal and blah blah nonsense.
You are totally fine.
Relax
Thank u for helping me out clear my confusion!!
Raj Chauhan @raj1403
The pleasure was all mine
Anwar Raza @anwar09
You are confused and stuck between self dependent and selfishness
Yep!!
Oas Choudhary @oas
That is your wish, manβ¦ If, you are thinking that you are complete by yourself so, do the break upβ¦ Should not make someone believe that you need them when you donβt butI think for few months this will be great but after that you will need someoneβ¦ This is totally your call, man
Thanks!
No problem, dude
Well I think three of your claims are parallel to each other with a different meaning but they are not synonymous and guess what? You have achieved the capacity to remain emotionally sustainable and thatβs the good thingβ¦keep the good work and live a happy life ahead.
Babe you donβt need a man/ woman to fill in your life. Be your own rich man. Also side note maybe u might have outgrown of love.
How are you doing now?
Im doing great hoping same for u
thats good to hear. things are okayish on my side.
so finally what all you concluded?
Iβll keep going in the flow!