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Iโ€™m in a relationship but i feel complete by being with myself and i can afford to live happily even after breakup.

Is it my selfishness or self dependency and maturity?

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Anonymous
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Yes surely i am

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abhishek @abhishekdaga

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It all depends where you see yourself in future with him or on your own.

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Anonymous
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But itโ€™s not what i asked for!

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Anonymous
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What you asked for is not valid until you find yourself in that situation.

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Anonymous
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Im in that situation only

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Anonymous
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Itโ€™s good to be self satisfied. You donโ€™t need a person anyways. But everyone has got good and bad days. If your partner genuinely loves and cares for you, pampers you I am sure you will love him/her more.

Though love brings 100 other stuffs (good and bad) with it but get into relationship only and only if you feel you should.

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Anonymous
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This is the only sensible answer Iโ€™ve received till now thank u :))

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Anonymous
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Donโ€™t overthink but think before you take any stepโ€ฆ Like breakup or try falling in love

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Anonymous
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Yes surely!

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Anonymous
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This is maturity.
Please you are one in a million sane person.
Do not let the programming of current generation make you judge yourself.

We are brainwashed as a generation that love is eternal and blah blah nonsense.

You are totally fine.
Relax

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Thank u for helping me out clear my confusion!!

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Raj Chauhan @raj1403

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The pleasure was all mine

Anwar Raza @anwar09

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You are confused and stuck between self dependent and selfishness

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Anonymous
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Yep!!

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Oas Choudhary @oas

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That is your wish, manโ€ฆ If, you are thinking that you are complete by yourself so, do the break upโ€ฆ Should not make someone believe that you need them when you donโ€™t butI think for few months this will be great but after that you will need someoneโ€ฆ This is totally your call, man

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Anonymous
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Thanks!

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Anonymous
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No problem, dude

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Anonymous
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Well I think three of your claims are parallel to each other with a different meaning but they are not synonymous and guess what? You have achieved the capacity to remain emotionally sustainable and thatโ€™s the good thingโ€ฆkeep the good work and live a happy life ahead.

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Anonymous
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Babe you donโ€™t need a man/ woman to fill in your life. Be your own rich man. Also side note maybe u might have outgrown of love.

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How are you doing now?

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Anonymous
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Im doing great hoping same for u

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Anonymous
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thats good to hear. things are okayish on my side.

so finally what all you concluded?

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Anonymous
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Iโ€™ll keep going in the flow!

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