I'm in a long distance relationship . It's been more than 2 years to our relationship and more than 6 years to our friendship he is my bestfriend. We do have a lot of trust , understanding . But for a while now I don't think he puts much effort in relationship . He says he misses me but doesn't talk much as he is busy and goes to meet his friends . He doesn't even comes to meet me .when I told him this he says it will get fine once we meet but rn I just feel he is not giving me time as much he use to give me before. And I feel weird . 

Why is my boyfriend giving me time . Whenever we have an argument or fight I'm always the one go back to him . He doesn't usually do special gesture which I do expect and he knows too . He doesn't like to talk on calls . He said he would come to meet me but he didn't . Ik he loves me and cares about me but I feel all this small things are making me feel like he is going a little far from me

Girllll, please don't chase him . Make him understand how you are feeling in this and later both of you try to build this 
If he doesn't give a damn leave him girll

Boyfriend

How to get over someone you love?

Breakup

I feel like my bf is getting idk bored of me? Maybe tired of me idk but whenever I text something he would always reply with “ooh”. How the heck are u just gonna so oh when I told u something serious! We hardly see each other now he doesn’t want to hang with me as much and we don’t really do couple stuff like we used to like hugging, kissing or whatever. My family said I should dump him and that he’s probably trying to distance himself away from me slowly and then break up with me. ._.

I just want to share my thoughts so please bear with this post because if I couldn't share it I'm afraid I'll explode because of this feeling of guilt and sadness. 

All this years I never thought that I would be one of the reason that my ex died 3 years ago until a letter written 3 years ago is sent via email by this website where you can write to someone and send it to them in the future.

I didn't know that I am one of the reason why he did that, I never thought that he is not okay when we ended it all because he told me after 3 months that he moved on already and found a new one so I give him space and moved on. I shouldn't have agreed about breaking up and give up that easily, I should have ask him about the reason, but it's to late because he decided to face it alone. I thought he is just a jerk who like dumping others if he got bored so it never cross in my mind that he is sick and don't want me to suffer from a loss and pain but now it's likely what I am facing because I felt guilt of moving on and giving up.

Relationships

Feeling so low and sad 😔 I had an argument with my long distance boyfriend we tried to fix it but in the end can't let go of it every single things hurts, I was never so sensitive to anyone or any messages but it different in his case ,I am so insecure about us, even a single thought of never being able to contact him is frightening 

i have this male friend from a long time. we talk every single day tell each other about our day and sadness and everything. its a very special bond. after continuosly talking for an year i confessed him that i love him and he said he isnt ready for a relationship and he'll tell me when he is ready. but later after i waited for an year almost he said he has feelings for my friend. i was broke and he said he wants to help me out through this depression cuz he caused him. we stayed friends and got more close later. yesterday he said he wants to get into relationship with anyone but not me. he said he wants to get into a relationship this year and is excited for it. so i asked if he is interested in me this time he said no cuz its long distance. i tried convincing him but it seemed like he doesnt love me in the first place. so i said okayy and left. but i told him its hard for me to see him with someone else so lets end the friendship. i badly dont wanna end it but i didnt find any other solution. he doesnt wanna end it too. idk what i shd do now. but i cant be close like before with him cuz once he finds a gf it wont seem good for us to stay close likenow. idk what to do. tell me smth


Anxiety

There was a guy who was my classmate. We had never spoken. We began to interact a lot when we were made to sit together. I was attached to him. My friends used to tease me. They felt we liked each other. Maybe i did. After a few days i noticed a change in his behaviour. One day he took my notebook and scribbled i love you on a page. Next year he left the school without telling anyone. We had lost touch. We moved on in our lives. I thought he must have forgotten me. After 5 years i found him on social media. We had a good conversation. We stayed in touch off and on. After few months he told me that he likes me. We are in a relationship since 2 years.

Gratitude

I met a guy around March last year...we started seeing each other...in these 10 months he has ended things between us quite a multiple number of times...he ends things in the morning saying it is not working out...and at night comes back in night saying sorry as he was not in good mood...once he randomly stopped talking to me...I tried contacting him not replied me back not took my calls...removed me from everywhere and now after 4 months he texts me that he has committment issues and wants to get back...I don't know what happened to me and I forgive him and we started seeing each other again...and not to my surprise he again stops talking to me and now again comes back...I have tried having the conversation with him that he should decide whether he wants me in his life or not...everytime he says yes he wants and again cuts me off from him life whenever he wants...I don't know what should I do.

Long Distance Relationship

I am missing how we used to spend time together, missing how he used to pay attention to me and would do anything to meet me , now things have changed he doesn't even give a crap , it's been 2 months since we've spent quality time together , he doesn't seem to care. I feel like crying as I do not want anyone else. Is there a way for him to go back to the way he was 🥲 . Manifesting a great great sex life ahead and lots of love from him. 🥺

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