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Anonymous

Iā€™m in a dilemmaā€¦ To choose between my parents who gave me everything so farā€¦ And the person who is already imagining a life with meā€¦ Who trusted me after facing a lot of things in his lifeā€¦

I donā€™t want any of them to feel sadā€¦
I will do anything for my parentsā€¦ But the moment I think about moving onā€¦ I feel guilty for making the person I love sadā€¦ He had faced lot of things in his life so farā€¦ I promised him that I will never leave himā€¦

Will my parents agree a person with other casteā€¦ What to doā€¦

If I tell my parents and if they never agre then they will never treat me the sameā€¦

If I donā€™t then I will never forgive meā€¦

Iā€™m in a state of confusion on what to doā€¦ Anyone please suggest me what to do

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Sanket @sanket

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Fight for both sides!
Explain to your parents that he is capable enough, he is skilful, he can carry well.
If heā€™s not then support him to be capable enough.

Think calmly and if things are worth to fight for then FIGHT!

@kusum
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Hi dear
I feel in this case u need to tell ur parents
Tell anyone of them to whom u are more closeā€¦
Parents love us a lotā€¦
Their love for you will not changeā€¦
They should know what is in ur heart
See falling in love isnot anything wrong u have done
That u should hide from ur parents.
Atleast give them a chance to knowā€¦
Then see what happensā€¦
Donot assume
Maybe ur parents will agreeā€¦
I know it is very difficult for u
But pls try it out
Pls
Donot give up
Tryā€¦
Try for urself,for him n for ur parentsā€¦
It willnot be easy to forgive urself or moveon
Atleast u must try
If it unfortunately doesnot work
Atleast u willnot have to burden the guilt of not even tryingā€¦
Good luck to you.
God bless youā€¦
Stay strongā€¦

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ANGEL BLUE @angelblue

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Dear Anonymous,

Let me begin with the fact that your parents should love you with whatever decisions you make! This is parental love. You will not disappoint them by being with the one you love. If they see you happy then they will be happy as well. You know better your parents than me but on the other hand you should open up to them tell them what the situation is. Do not be pessimistic things might turn out well in the end!! Let me know how itā€™s going so far and what else can i do to help

Always yours, AngelBlue šŸ’™

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