I’m in a 4year old relationship. Everything was fine for first 1.5 year then things started changing between us. He’s still loyal and faithful but his puts no effort in this relationship. He says he loves me but his actions are opposite. How doesn’t have time for me and there goes weeks when we don’t even chat. He never calls. Even texts are rare. I have never expected anything more than his time. I have always given my 100% but I don’t know what to do now. He’s a nice person but when it comes to relationship it’s like I don’t exist for him. What should I do?
Mayank @mayank7296
Hie buddy,
look it always happens when some has priority more than you, which can be
financial stability , emotional support, etc etc.
since all this say that
you are not that important still
which means either you have to wait keep patience untill he gets stable for you.
or understand simply things have change just.
Janmesh @janmesh
Tbh you should end this! If you don’t wanna end it tell him to give you time and take a break from your relationship be happy for a while, make new friends and think what should you do and yeah keep talking to let go all of your thoughts! Take Care:)
Hey… more power to you love… I understand that it is a very tough time you are facing. Try to indulge in other activities… keep yourself busy…
Meanwhile try talking to him… donot force the conversation it can worsen your relationship. Try to be calm … just try talking to him or drop a text about how your day was and how was his. Try it for a week or two. If still he donot pay attention then let him be … do not initiate the conversation if he says something reply in short… do this for some time… if he really loves you definitely he will come back and will try to solve the differences…
I have been through the same… but I was on the other side. I love him… still I was being distant because I could not see a future with him due to family issues… later on when he limited his conversations I realised that nothing makes sense without him. So I sorted out everything with him.
If you love him be patient and try for a few more months.
Baby even I went through same thing I know how frustrating it could be to u if you are really confused about his intentions towards you at present just ask him directly what’s going in your head and if he still says he loves you then just give him a time don’t force anything in mean while just focus on yourself love yourself more and make yourself strong just be prepared for anything because girl u gotta leave for yourself because it’s harming your mental peace nothing is more important than mental health if he doesn’t care about how u feel then he is not even worth your time.
God bless you with strength just be strong.
kabiraspeaking @kabiraspea...
Commute about the problem!!! You won’t be able to fix it until he knows
