I’m in 2nd year of college but My college sends absent messages to parents. My parents are strict so I can’t spend with my bf at all , so the only way is to bunk .I blocked the college numbers on messages . But I’m scared that my dad might find out by going to blockedcontacts because he haven’t blocked any other numbers. Do you have any other ideas please?
One day he will come to know so it’s better you must tell him by your own. In this world only parents can understand us and no1 else
You don’t know my parents. They already found out once and took away all my freedom. I’m living in a jail.
Well for now just unblock it and going forward balance the attendance instead instead of bunking all the time.
Attendance is not an issue . I have enough attendance
Well then how many lectures you miss in a day?
1 or 2 that’s it . That too I’ll not be bunking everyday . Just once in a month or when I feel like there’s nothing important going on in class.
Then it’s fine just say to them you had gone to canteen or stuff then got late for that class
Rahul R Nair @elite_gentx
People are temporary, education is permanent. Cheating parents is like cheating yourself. Continue like this, wait for 3-4 years, and then comeback, and reply under this comment; “Now I realised”.
Yes, we need relationships, but it should be just a part.
Like in the gym, we used to do 3 sets instead of 5. And our coach said: Cheating your coach is like cheating yourself.
That changed my prospective completely.
I prioritise my education. I am amedical student and you don’t know how useless the lectures are , they just read the ppt . And btw I’m not gonna bunk everyday . It’s just 1 class per month that’s it.
Focus on your career. You’ll get a lot of time with your bf once you’re settled.
Your parents are doing this for you. Earning for you. They don’t want to see you fail at life.