Im having a lot of trouble trying to self identify. Nothing is feeling right
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Anonymous•
Hey, that’s all right. We have all been there where we have had some major identity crisis. You can give yourself time and try to identify your interests and where you find yourself the most comfortable.
Anonymous•
It can be a very confusing time with so much pressure to conform.
But don’t worry, you don’t have to try to fit in. Start with what comes most naturally to you. And by that, I mean your areas of interest. Because that will be your core. Your sexual preferences and gender identity will be a form of better self-expression, but ultimately what will matter is who you are at an individual level. Are you good, are you kind? Because finding your preference is very obvious for some, and a long and arduous journey for others.
so be patient and keep exploring, that’s the only way to find out.
Anonymous•
true that
i’d say don’t give up on it, keep trying, reading, watching, learning; you’ll find your way.
Hey. Don’t worry. Just try to give yourself some time. Think what you want. And its ok we all have some moments in life when we feel we are stuck. But there is always a way out. Believe yourself.
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Hey, that’s all right. We have all been there where we have had some major identity crisis. You can give yourself time and try to identify your interests and where you find yourself the most comfortable.
It can be a very confusing time with so much pressure to conform.
But don’t worry, you don’t have to try to fit in. Start with what comes most naturally to you. And by that, I mean your areas of interest. Because that will be your core. Your sexual preferences and gender identity will be a form of better self-expression, but ultimately what will matter is who you are at an individual level. Are you good, are you kind? Because finding your preference is very obvious for some, and a long and arduous journey for others.
so be patient and keep exploring, that’s the only way to find out.
true that
i’d say don’t give up on it, keep trying, reading, watching, learning; you’ll find your way.
Hey. Don’t worry. Just try to give yourself some time. Think what you want. And its ok we all have some moments in life when we feel we are stuck. But there is always a way out. Believe yourself.