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Im good I think. But sometimes I feel that in an instant I can be replaced. Even when everyone tells me I’m this great friend, I just don’t believe them. I’ve only been best friends with my friend for about 3 years now but she means the world to me. And everytime she mentions her childhood friend I get a little insecure and get this weird feeling in my stomach like I just don’t want to be bothered and I wish it wasn’t there but it is.

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snktmore
@snktmore

The feeling is part insecurity and jealousy. Because you don’t want your friend to compare you with others.

Does your friend know how you feel for? If yes, then you should get over with it because girls cherish memories without always involving intimacy and boys should accept they are good at it and well sorted about their feelings.(That’s a good quality of feminine)

If not, then you are over thinking it and it shouldn’t bother you like you said.

Anonymous

It keeps on bothering me tho it’s just this feeling I have and I want it to go away, but I don’t know how to make it go away. I need some more advice.

snktmore
@snktmore

The thing is you know what to do but don’t want to get over with it. That’s because you feel for her.

Any advices will only give
you idea how to deal with it. The moment you accept it you’ll be able to overcome it. Take your time and steadily you will move on.

Anonymous

Accept what?

snktmore
@snktmore

Are you in relationship with this girl?

If yes, then accept she is just expressing her genuine feelings of friendship with her other friend. You shouldn’t over think about it.

If you aren’t in relationship then you can take a risk and express your feelings with her.

If you’re not comfortable or she isn’t looking for a partner. You need stop over thinking about this whole thing only you with your thoughts can overcome this no ones advise will help you about it.