Shubham @memanticc
Iβm going through really hard time. got played by someone who wanted me first. I literally gave zero interest in her in the beginning but after 6 being touch for more than 8 months I kinda got attached. now It feels like since Iβve confessed my feelings itβs only I whoβs making effort to keep us together while she canβt even fight for me? this feeling kinda making me hate myself n Iβm having self doubts also as if I were not good enough or am I not attractive now? I contemplated suicide. Idk what to do. Iβve blocked her from everywhere but I still do feel like sheβll come back one day n make all things alright.
what should I do
Hey donβt you even try to do sucide okay whatever your situation is its gonna be okay and to get attached to someone who wanted u first is what we all do and if she donβt see your worth that doesnβt make u worthless know your own worth boy u r still attractive before met her and after u met her u r just a normal human with normal feelings and is she donβt love you now then she is doing mistake but donβt your beautiful life because of her there is whole world out there waiting for u to explore and life is a gift from God we have to see our own worth and love ourselves for who we are if u donβt Love yourself nobody will okay? Just stay calm and know your worth and itβs okay to have hard time nothing lasta forever not even bad time there is so much blessings for u waiting out there just get through this hard times and u will find your blessings and peace
Shubham @memanticc
she even was in a relationship (I didnβt know about that) and used to hook up w her. I mean I saw her flaws that loyalty canβt be expected from her but still she never respected my time n space. and itβs obvious agar 6months gadhe se b baat krlo toh usse b attachment ho jayegi. I see all the reasons why sheβs not the one but canβt Stop myself missing her. I put my phone on DND all the time, have blocked her from everywhere but still expect that sheβd come back. Idk what to do Man
Mujtaba Hasan @m_hasan24
I cud relate to that⦠Hang in there brother i know how much it can affect how u view yourself. That self doubt is bound to creep in and guilt of saying Yes to her.
Shubham @memanticc
I literally had no interest in her be it physical or emotional. Itβs like she forcefully made me attached to her
Mujtaba Hasan @m_hasan24
Ikr itβs like all she wanted was winning you over and then thereβs nothing much left to do afterwards.
Shubham @memanticc
how to overcome this feeling
this hurts like hell
Mujtaba Hasan @m_hasan24
Itβll hurt, Youβll have to endure it until one day she wonβt matter anymore.
The only thing you can do is accept it and start working on yourself, once youβll start achieving things in life all this wud be in the background and wonβt matter that much.