I’m feeling very miserable. I wanna live a happy life on my terms. But I am not able to. I am scared to go against everyone to get what I want. I dont feel like living but I dont wanna die either. I’m stuck in a difficult and complicated situation. I have lost all my hope.
I have no clue as to what I should do.
Piya @piyakaurbajaj
Hey, I know how that feels sometimes, we want to make choices in our life that might involve us to do things that society does not agree with. There are so many examples of so many successful people who took that choice and when you say," I don’t feel like living but I do not want to die either" to me it might mean that you live for your dream and that is a good thing. I want you to know that you can make it happen, you an acheive all that you have set your mind to.
If you feel clueless and do not know which way to go, you can take sometime to meditate and calm your mind, try talking to a loved one about how you feel, who you know might not have that kind of a negative attitude. Or if not, you can consider talking to an expert, they are there to help you!
Incase you think about it, here is a link: https://nowandme.com/resources/experts
So u r telling me however messed up the situation may be, however complicated it may be you are saying that i should talk to someone…what if they dont understand.
Piya @piyakaurbajaj
Hey, it is just a suggestion, if you feel talking may not help, then do not take that path and if you feel the person you want to talk to might not understand it why not talk to someone might have an objective view on the situation!
It is just a suggestion, do what feels right to you!
Sending good vibes your way!
Thank you so much
Piya @piyakaurbajaj
Anytime! Take care!
See living without your own wishes is not living at all. You have to be selfish with your wants otherwise no one will let you be.
I am afraid that when I am being selfish the others get hurt…and im terrified of hurting other people. But still i am not able to endure the pain myself
That might be possible. But arent you not hurting yourself while trying to save others?
