Im feeling very mad and distrubed.
this is family issue, i recently got married and me and my husband live with in laws. My Father in law is very egoistic and narcists person. he wants to rule the house and i never lived in such environment.
i earn more than every member in the family and he does not like that. he want me to obey to his silly things(he must be thinking as i earn more power will come to my hands) and honestly im not interested in ruling over anyone, but i want my freedom. and i dont like to get micromanaged in the work i do.
i cant say these things about him to my husband, coz i dont want to be that girl.
i dont have any friends with whom i can share these things.
Thanks for reading.
Your father in law is such a small minded person you know what you can move on with your husband in a new home
well my brother in law and his wife moved out in new home, and thats why parents are hurt. so at the time of getting married my husband only asked me for not asking him for moving out ever
Then tell your husband that either move out or either tell your father to stop this non sense
Aaise nai hota hai bhai
It’s easy to sah ki
Ki sidhe jaake boldo ki stop this nonsense
Father in laws are considered to be like very ruling and khadoos types and that kind of thing you know
Ab ye depend krta hai ki uss father in law ka nature kaisa hai
Father in laws gets the highest respect and value in a marriage too uskk wajah se fayda utha lete hai
They should not act like this and be egoistic
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Does ur mother in law earn? He might b worriedthat since u earn more u may like be that ruling person…he needs to get convinced that u r not such a person… Only then he’ll stop this…
He never let her earn.
Actually, i went against him in one financial decision, and everyone agreed with me. My decision was wiser but still i opposed and everyone supported me, so he must be thinking im ruling.
Ya mayb thats the reason… He was the decision maker till now no… His ego must have hurt wen everyone supported u… Hm that doesn’t mean that u silently support all his decision either… But u need to act wisely…
Yes, thanks for reading my thoughts, this helped. sometimes we just need to pour our heart out to a listener
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Move out if possible with your husband and if possible just ignore him
And never ever leave your job under his pressure because he can try that too… don’t leave your job even if your husband tells! I’m telling this because the same thing is happened in one of my friend’s place recently!
Heyy you should share these things with you husband
Husband hi ek aaisa aadmi hai jo tumhe samjhega and he’ll help things get better
You don’t have to bitch about your father in law
Just apne husband se poliety and kindly apne saare issue explain krdo ki what you don’t like and let your husband Handel
Cause you can’t ask your father in law to stop doing it
In this case you can just help things get better aur ye cheez tabhi hogi jab tumhara husband support krega tumhe
But wat if her father in law feel like she has made her husband on her side… That wud again hurt his ego and he will become miserable right?? Since the way she described her fil i feel like he is such a person who doesn’t like to be corrected
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