Sharing Our Innermost Thoughts

Im feeling so worried, i really wants to do phd and become an professor. i have given interview as well in IITs waiting for results. My cousins have got jobs and im confused whether to do phd or search for job.
Sometimes my dad used to scolds me for not doing any job now outside members are asking me what im doing how long you will study like this. My mom wants to see me in job and in settled life, becz my mom and dad fights sometimes and my mom will come to be crying and tell get some job i will come to you like that then i starts searching for job im not interested in job, I don’t wants job like an robot, i wants to be an professor so i will have some time to learn new things and i really wants to teach.
sometimes i wants to see my parents happy and wants to remove her pains and struggles.
i really confused my mind is not able to think what to do next.
Its frustrating so much and also i wants to enjoy life i have not done in my entire life,im 24 now,
i wants to be in relationship and have ro make good friends and outings like that with not neglecting studies as well, i thought with phd i will get all this.