Iβm feeling so horrible right now canβt explain. Agr koi ldki ek din thoda bhr gum le toh usko uski aukaat dikhana q jruri hota h hmari patriarchal society k hisab se. Dukh toh tb hota h jb apne hi gharwalo ki soch aisi ho.
No one can ignore agr mahino baad 2 gante tum gum lo or ghar pr aake taane sunne mile apne hi family members se and jab they all keep telling u that wht shouldnβt u do.
College k liye hi jaane dete h bahar. Wahi se thodi der bahar chali gai 2 gante friends k sath vo bhi proper bata kar, uske baad bhiβ¦
Chota h mujse kya hi support krega, uski soch bhi wesi hi bana rahe hai sab mil kar. Jese sahi hi toh hai galat kya hai isme.
Yeah thank u
How can i connect to u
If i wanted to reveal my identity than i would have posted this without being anonymous.
Taane is normalβ¦you have to be strong and win in lifeβ¦plus in most cases family members care more about you than random Internet strangers
Caring ki baat nahi hai par they sre so orthodox that muje gutan hone lag jaati hai.
How old are you
24
Damnβ¦i thought youβre 17-18 maxβ¦and you earn yourself?
May be i could but private job for a girl is not allowed.
Whaaaaaat⦠whyyyy
Yeah thatβs worst my condition isβ¦
How are you doing rn
Better than yesterday
Iβm really gladβ¦ wanna talk?
sid @sdt028
Humare ghar me esa kuch nhi hota, koi rok tok kisi pe bhi. But sab log sahi galat bhi samjhte. Koi esa kaam karte hi nahi jisse parents ko dikkat ho
Me aaj tk kbi apne parents ki baat k aage nhi gaiβ¦haa bole roh haa nhi bole toh nahi. Iske bavjud bhi β¦
Unko koi dikkat ho esa kaam krne ki toh dur me soch bhi nhi sakti hun. Itβs just the thinking of patriarchal and orthodox society.
sid @sdt028
Yeah, there are many families who have this mentality. But kabhi kabhi ye safety ke regarding concern bhi ho sakta hai ya phir apne banaye niyam
Bs wahi hβ¦bt i feel suffocated sometimes by thisπ¦π