I'm feeling sad and a feeling of anxiety is also there..this all is happening just because I coincidentally  saw my ex yesterday and I can't put that off my mind...his face is just stuck in my mind and I can't concentrate on anything ,I'm just thinking about all that stuff that happened in the past😔😔 Please someone tell me how to cope up with this.

We broke up 9 months ago...I last saw him at that time..It was hard for me to move on but I tried..As time passed I thought I have moved on but after I saw him yesterday all the memories came back flooding in my mind..I can't get them off from my mind😔😔

You can't cope with this through any magic medicine. But things might help if you unload things from your heart. Talk to me, tell everything!!

Anxiety

Hey guys,
I am in dilemma in decision. My family found a match for me for arrange marriage and we talked twice on video calls. He seems good and supportive person. I like him. But he drinks, at that time I said okay and I don't like drinking. And it's bothering me now, this one factor is stopping me to accept him. what do I do? I don't want to tell my fam about it, ofc for person's image, so should I tell anyone? And reject this offer

Marriage

I loved him we we're together for 6 years and we planned to marry ofc. An incident happened in our family which led us thinking we couldn't marry (we just overthinked the situation its definitely possible) so we thought of parting ways.. few days later he got a new girl. I still love him with all my heart and dream of being with him but acts like he doesn't give a shit. Self respect etc nothing comes in mind i just want him back I've tried my best he doesn't seem to care. I feel lost my bestfriend my life partner my family all at once. the way he says he cannot breakup with his new girl breaks my soul. it's been months and the pain is only getting worse 

Depression

I thought he would ask me atleast if I have boarded the bus, or anything. But nothing😓. He only texted me "happy journey". Am I wrong to overthink but whatever it's just making me sad. I am his fiance

This is my third post on this website. You all have been really supportive. My boyfriend broke up with me 16 months back and I am still so good to him, if he still asks me to do something for him, I do it instantly, no matter how busy I am. Its like my duty to do everything he asks me to do for him. But he doesn't treat me that great. He texts me when he wants me to do something for him otherwise he would have even forgotten my existence. I don't expect him to take me back or anything. I just want him to treat me as a human and not his robot. He matters to me a lot, but I know he doesn't really care about me, because he had made it really clear to me a few times. He treats everyone else so much better then why not me. I met him a few days back after almost an year, and all the work I did in that one year to get over him just got wasted. Now I again started texting him desperately that how I miss him. He is still rude to me, but he did text me when he wanted me to write his assignment. I don't want him back. I just want him to treat me like he treats his other friends or like he treats other humans. After I saw him for the last time I have been really devastated, I keep sleeping all day to avoid texting him and to avoid thinking about him. My parents are super worried about me behaving this way. But what choice do I have? If I don't sleep and talk to my parents even about some random stuff I know I'll end up crying and how do I explain that. Why am I so unlovable to him? I have treated him like he is everything, I have treated him better than any person I know. I gave him everything and still why is it not possible for him to treat me like a normal friend. I know he is just a guy, I know its just a breakup and Its not the end of the world. But then why does it feels like it is the end of the world. 

Breakup

As if i can go back and reassess why i am marrying this person whom I met once , and he said over message that he want to marry , from no where.As he has everything in his house and in life only missing is me ,as what he used to say . And me the naive one never ever been in any short of  relationship, could like to consider him and give a try how much bad it can happen, just that i challenge myself.i fall from him day by day and he used to keep me unseen for a day or week, i don't know we are in relationship or not when i used to come back in the city he never put up any effort to meet. And this way 1.5yr passed, i change my city and choose his place to work , and married him within month after joining , as he say to told my parents and marriage everything about us and we are from different cast, so there is repercussions so in hurry he convinced me to marry as after marriage or if it take longer having baby will change there midset. And i being in marriage 2.5yr and in my last month of pregnancy nothing change from my parents side, i even didn't saw them since then , they just leave in 10-15km away from me. And now the cause why i am reassessing is i have trust issue with him, he make up stories, about each and everything, he always stuck with his phone, never ever leave his phone , even if have to charge , get charge in different room , i even don't know the password, but some how i mange to see his social media chat with different different girl, but at the same time older chats are deleted, these girls are married  having children, and he always used to say he sleep early once he slept its difficult to wake him up but now due to my insomnia i saw him over is phone typing or chating in odd hours , and as i asked him, he secure his guard high evertime, and put  blame on me, that he can't have friend, he only talk to peoples if ever its necessary and its only related to work and its all because of me because i keep on questioning him. And how loyal he his he come back direct home after office never ever go or hang with friends, and as per record he said to me he never have friends and a good child always. He used to have gf in his college and he didn't told me anything about it and there is some seen about it, means having involvement of police and all (as he said later on that police man was her relative) i still don't know the whole story, as they go together outside country for higher study so i think there must be something strong between them and it was good 5-6yr relationship, seeing his past and now what he is doing write now, i am in guilt now and can't figure out my future or there is what other hidden truth to be unfold.

my boyfriend is now out of town and i really miss him he is not talking to me in the sense he's always busy with his family and i totally understand that i dont want creat any sort of problem for him or his family i just want to talk to him but i feel lonely at times also i dont want to sound desperate idk he wants me to deactivate my acc on instagram he doesnt let me post anything without his permission im not saying hes overprotective or toxic but cutting off everyone and focusing on him being loyal to him i did every single thing just to please him and see him happy but now that feel lonely i really dont have anyone to talk with this makes me depressed 

Lonely

Need some Suggestion... 
I met a guy on a dating app. It was the first time used a dating app or been on a date with someone. He was polite and harmless. When we started talking he was very interested initially but after our first meet his message frequency was less then after our second meet he gave me complements like "you are photogenic" he said he want to go on third date but he cancelled at last moment. After two days he replied to my message like he got a muscle pull and he is on bed rest. Then he ghosted me. I was left heart broken because I liked him. Is this a gentleman's way to end thing. If he didn't like me in person he should have said and ended it in first date itself right ?

Relationships

Anybody else's bf stay busy 3-4 days  and doesn't even reply to single text ?

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