I’m feeling jealous of my best friend. Not exactly jealous of her but of the attention she is getting. So there’s a guy who is our mutual friend and lately he’s giving her more importance than me. I know I cant lter his behaviour but I’m generally the attention seeker of the group so this feels a bit awkward to me. I know i sound completely stupid but i dont know how to even control this feeling and every time she tals abot him i feel like screaming. I’m not in love with him or anything, i just enjoy the attention.
Lately, Ive stopped talking to her or answering any group calls because i feel i will act out and it will make her feel ba and i dont want that to happen. This is my internal problem but i dont know how to get out of this?
its OK to want attention, we all need attention here and there, some of us more than others. As long as nobody is getting hurt I think it’s fine. and you’re doing the right thing to not answer if you’ll hurt people. Maybe talk to her, tell her you feel bad? IDK sorry!
