I’m feeling frustrated and upset. For the last 9 years, my relationship with my bonus kids has been an uphill battle regardless of how hard I’ve tried to make them feel welcome and at home. I feel like I have to walk on eggshells when they come over to avoid any conflict with their mother, but in the process they are rude and are mean to my 2 children. I’m at the point where I want to tell my husband that they are no longer welcome if they cannot be respectful to all members of our family, but I’m not sure if that’s wrong to do. 😩
I think it is okay to tell your husband since your children are affected by their rudeness. He should understand it also since it is the only way you can protect your children.
Thank you, I appreciate your input.