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I’m feeling confused about love and relationships and how boys look at it. If I love him hard he gets scared or feels caged and if I give him space he feels as if I don’t care about us. I can’t talk about this with anyone I know because it’s like I’m complaining about him and I don’t want to put his image bad in front of anyone as it ultimately leads to make me feel bad about it again. I want to be with him but nowadays
not getting enough attention from him as I used to get earlier makes me mad and crazy. I’m Feeling an emotional pain which I can’t share with anyone. I love him very much.

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You’re such a cute & good person. Just don’t push on TRYING To do something.
Just go with the flow, shower him some love. He’ll be drawn towards you.
Just don’t try to make things PERFECT.

Anonymous

Thank you 😊

Anonymous

Wish I had gf like you

Anonymous

haan ye karlo pehele tum idhr

Anonymous

Mana hai kya krna

sanjain

You need to talk this out with him, or else this thing will keep on dragging and you gonna feel exhausted over a period of time.

Anonymous

I have tried my best to talk about it with him but he doesn’t even show interest to listen . Communication is a two way process ,I’m already exhausted of asking him to discuss over it.

sanjain

then better dont do much, you gonna exhaust yourself in the process and boys does not change very easily.

k

If you are confuse than its not love buddy. Its just kind of attraction between you and other person. We are living in that era jaha affection ko pyar maan ke log relationship status change karlete hai. Aur breakup ke baad 2 din me move on kar lete hai.

Anonymous

May be I just get agitated when I find things are not like before. I poke him a lot in order to get attention and at last gets hurt. He might be hurt also that’s why behaving weird.

k

Ek chezz batau tum bhaut submissive ho tumhe tumhari glti phele dikh rhi hai.
Try to change your nature. Fir tum ko pata chal jaega usse tum hari fikar hai ke nahi.
Agr hai usko fikar toh abhi jaan laga dena iss relationship ko bachane me bss self-respect mat chorna.

Anonymous

Yes,I become guilt conscious easily. So what should I do in such situation?

Anonymous

As I’m too expressive, I talk about things, I take initiatives so i feel like it’s my duty to start and make initiatives every time otherwise he’ll not open up his feelings and respond to the situation, moreover if i don’t do this ,he might think may be I’m busy somewhere else and don’t bother about us. So I just keep asking him.

k

Be papa ki pari. 😂😂

Anonymous

How?

k

Sorry , bass tumko hasana tha. Dekho try karo ignore karne ka. Importance mat do. Usko. Vo feel hone do. Aagr vo aata hai fir mat rukna. Give your 100% to save that relationship .

Anonymous

I understand, no worries.
Okay ,I’ll try not to give him extra attention.

Anonymous

Thank you all for reverting on this upload. 🙏 I felt heard and this gave me sukoon.
:)