Lavie @lavienrose87
I’m engaged, but sometimes I can’t help but think about an ex and wonder how they are doing. He writes to me every so often (every few years). I hold back from reaching out, but today I emailed him hoping he replies. It’s been about 2 years since we last spoke. I sometimes look back at some of the good memories we had. Our relationship ended after almost 4 years. I struggled to get over him to the point I didn’t want another relationship but I looked at the positive of it all and took it as another experience in life and he helped me grow as a person and appreciate the little things in life and I guess that because of this I will always have a special place in my heart for him. I love my fiancé and I thank God everyday he’s in my life, but I can’t help but feel some what bad for thinking about someone else at times. I’m sure, I am not the only one that has gone through this before.
Yeah it happens with me as well…it’s okay to feel like that…may good things happen to you and loved ones…🤞
Lavie @lavienrose87
Thank you! Same for you 🙂
Ricky @ricky_
You know what, even if they are your ex or not…it’s not necessary to be distant…you could always be good friends. But make sure your ex and your current partner is totally cool with that. We, humans make all these relationships look very complex…but it’s actually very simple…be straightforward about our feelings bcoz it’s natural and nothing wrong in it. In the end, whether it’s your partner or a friend…being friendly and supportive is the most important thing in any relationship.
Take care 🧡
Lavie @lavienrose87
Thanks!
Ricky @ricky_
Hey…no probs. Take care
Black widow @shreya0208
It’s okay…you had a bond with him for sometime and it’s okay to remember those things…yk it’s a human mind, it can think anything. You love your fiancé and that’s amazing…at times you will get old memories but remember that there is always a reason something ends(whatever it is). Yk I think we as human tend to miss those things more which we could never get. Rather than appreciating what we have and your fiancé wants to be with you. So appreciate him. And ig you obviously do.
Lavie @lavienrose87
Thanks
Be honest with yourself , you can also talk with your fiancé about this too
