I’m currently in a relationship with someone that’s younger than me. It’s only by 2 years, I didn’t think it was a big deal. Looking at it now it seems to be, my friends constantly make jokes about it. Overall, I definitely like the person, but this is probably my first serious relationship. I’m so used to people leaving or not staying that I assumed be wouldn’t last thing long(5 months). I joked about breaking up when I start college, because it’ll be a new chapter and I don’t want a relationship to be a distraction or prevent me from experiences.I also want him to have fun and experience more too. We’re young, we have so much time to focus on a relationship. Am I wrong for wanting to break up? We’ve talked about it, He’s told me he understands. I’m just generally lost on what to do. Friends are telling me I’m dragging him on, If I knew this I shouldn’t have gotten into a relationship with him. I agree, but I personally think every relationship is a trial and error, to prepare you for marriage or your forever person. My intentions were to never waste his time, or drag him on. Reality hit me when I realize, how the age difference is gonna awkward until we both graduate college. Sorry idk if this makes any sense, but I needed to get it all out.
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