I’m a girl and used to like my friend(also girl) I don’t know if still love her but she doesn’t muse me much now. I rather have a good choice in boys now, but I still feel to confess her that I had a crush just to feel light and just to be happy. I’m just nervous how’d she act when she gets to know it and how it’d affect our friendship…help me out please I’m really stuck!
My bestfreind liked me and she told me about it…and it didn’t affect our friendship much…
I guess you should tell her, but you should first make sure that she is mature and mentally strong enough to handle it because these topics are very sensitive to talk about and even if you’re very good and close friends with her, you cannot predict how the person will react…but if you keep it with you there always would be a guilt about that… So my suggestion is that you should first take her emotional and mental state into consideration 😊💙
This is what I really fear the most… what turns out is very unpredictable…how do I know if she’s able to handle this mentally??
Try tell her this in a indirect way, means try asking her (in a very casual manner) what would she react if she got know that some girl has a crush on her, first maybe she will take it on a lighter note but you keep asking her to answer it, once she answers ask her what if that girl was one of her close friends, by her answer you’ll get a hint that how mentally prepared she is to take this
Yeah…I’ll try to confront her…thank you very much. You just reduced my burden:)
Thank you everyone for sharing your opinions on this … I’ll get back to you soon, :)
Always a pleasure 😊💙
Start by saying that you have had feelings for her and you are telling this to her to feel light and now you don’t feel for her. If she is genuinely your friend then she will definitely be able to understand
If you ask me, please don’t. I have been through the same situation. I told my friend (girl) that I was very attached to her and had started developing feelings for her. Though being married she responded to my feelings and we started having a affair kinda. But then, she disappeared when her husband came back from ship. When her husband went back again we got back it touch n behaved like couples this went on for 2 years. In between we had a fight and didn’t speak for an year, that’s when she had a baby. Now I’m nothing to her. I’m just another person. We don’t even talk about what happened between us. I still madly love her. But she moved on. And I’m stuck here with my feelings. Thinking about her all the time.
