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Anonymous

I’m a daughter of divorced parents. I’ve been dating for 3 years now. My partner had always wanted me to stay with his parents after marriage. He had also explained how good his parents are.
I met his parents recently and did not like them as they spoke only about my parents divorce, and insisted we hide about it and not tell anyone in the family, asked who will give money to my mom for survival, what happens once my grandmother dies, your mom will be alone. Your parents are divorced, are you sure about marrying my son, we are worried what may happen considering your background.

After hearing to them, I felt that they are treating me bad and did not even try to understand who I am and that my parents past doesn’t define my present.

Now I do not want to live with them after marriage but my parentner is against it. Am I thinking right or am I making a mistake?

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@ype_aka

I think your partner should support you.

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Anonymous

Yeah

@ype_aka

You guys have been together for 3 years.
He should take a stand for you.

@cheery_pencil

I agree

@ype_aka

Is this your post?

@cheery_pencil

Yes

@ype_aka

Oh okay…i was curious so asked.

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Wooju @wooju

Listen i understand it hurts you what they spoke!! But remember they are parents and they were grown up in the society where other person thoughts more important than their children!! It’s not your mistake neither his but the best solution is for you both to sit and talk because only with understanding these issues can be resolved

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Anonymous

Thanks for the suggestion, I appreciate it

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Anonymous

Look frm wat u say if u r life doesn’t have party half dress guy frnds late night…home trips alone …thn go ahead or try to convince ur guy to have a different life smwhereelse dont say it directly 😅 indirectly make him to…or last option frgt nd move to smone who doesn’t judge based on parents divorce one mistake nd ppl will say bcs of ur parent divorce ur like this

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