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Anonymous

I’m a 17 years old girl…in college rn and I just feel insecure about the way I look. I keep telling myself that everyone is beautiful in their own way but i just don’t seem to apply it to myself when i look in the mirror. I have cellulite and stretch marks and also pigmentation on my face and hands cause of the allergy I had. Although my allergies and acne is all in control now and they’re not causing much of a problem as they did earlier…they still have traces on my skin which Idk will fade away or not:(
This upsets me all the time cause I can’t don’t feel confident when I look at it.
And it’s hurts so much cause my hands are actually a lot more fairer than my face(thanks to the pigmentation on my face🤡)
What do I do?😔

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@sdfgh

Hello, sorry you’re going through soo much rn and it’s affecting your self esteem but I believe it’s all in the attitude on has. I’ll tell you my example I’m tall fit n quite beautiful yet I feel insecure and I hate my body sometimes and I have on friend who’s extremely obese has alott of allergies on face and lots n lots of health issues but trust me what confidence ahe radiates I swear sometimes I get intimidated by that she is soo comfortable in her skin and is working out on herself at the same time…a pure soul never saw her being jealous and the way she compliments her loved ones around her ssly doesn’t matter what she looks like. I hope you understood my point. And this is not a story. Real life example 😊

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Anonymous

Thank you for sharing your experience…definitely helped me think in a different manner:)

Revati @revati_123

Hey,
Hope you are doing well. If you feel insecure about yourself please just know that it’s okay and that one day you’ll feel confident about yourself too! Everyone has flaws some learn how to accept it, some hate it, some just put up with it and some learn to do both, accept and love them. That completely depends on the individual. It might take some time for you to feel comfortable in your own skin…but I am sure you’ll start loving yourself pretty soon. Also, your age,the teenage is the time when most of us go through alot of physical and hormonal changes because of which stretch marks, pigmentation, acne, allergies, etc happen. All of this is just going to make you more beautiful! Just trust the process and try to accept everything that you have, I won’t call it flaws because from where I see those are all Beauty spots!😉
Lots of love and light to you! 💕✨

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Anonymous

Omg🥺🥺🥺
You’re so kind to say this and I’m so lucky to get this response. I love the way you said I don’t see them as flaw but as beauty spots😍
Thank you for being so loving❣…I will try to accept whatever my body or skin has to offer:)

Revati @revati_123

Because they are! You’ll start loving them soon!

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Alex @deceivedayp

idk but everyone has something that makes him look bad. people like you and me simply have many

@abhi02

You are beautiful in your way
May you would had a nice day

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Anonymous

Thanks:)
I hope you have a good day too!

@abhi02

Yep
Helping people makes happy 😁!

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Anonymous

🙂🙂🙂

Phoenix @mdaarizamaan

The thing is you are being embarrassed because of the issue your having i mean. You are not being proud of who you are right now,
I’ll give you an example,
If a person starts going to a gym, he feels proud, confident of himself when he See’s changes in himself,
What i think about this is one finds something in himself which makes him proud, confident, pride, courage… And all. This thing is exactly opposite of your issue,
What i think is you are finding something in yourself which makes you embarrassed (not proud of yourself) takes away confident and all.
What i think is" FINDING SOMETHING IN OURSELVES TO BE PROUD SOUNDS LITTLE ABSURD TO ME" .
This mens. one should feel proud, confident, because of just being HERSELF, WHY FINDING Something WHILE YOU CAN BE CONFIDENT OF YOURSELF JUST BY ADMITTING THAT FACT THAT YOU ARE LIKE THIS. AND THEN BE PROUD OF yourself.
be proud of yourself the way you are,
Stop comparing others to yourself,.
“Yours different book, others are different book” What matters is how PROUDLY,CONFIDENTLY you read yours. .
I am sorry if i said something wrong.
But i mean what i said
I’ll be glad to hear you, anytime
I hope i made myself useful ☺
Have great day,

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Anonymous

Hey:)
Don’t be sorry…you didn’t say anything offensive lol
I do compare myself a lot and then think why didn’t I have a clear skin and all so it adds to the frustration…
What you said was useful for sure thanks🤗
I hope you have a great day too

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