I'm 25 years old. My father has never taken any responsibility on me. Should I continue staying at home or just move out?

Youre old enough to take your own responsibility . Its time you look to move out rather than depend on him. 

It's your thought. I think no one understands responsibility more than the Father.  I lost my father at the age of 12 so I know what it's like to live without him.If there is any problem then sit down and talk with your father. Moving away from them is not a solution.Our father is like a roof over our head.And we come to know this when he is not with us.  So as long as you have them, appreciate them.  stay with them.  Have a talk with them.  There is no better option than this.

Anxiety

Are all father's like that 
Are all men like that 
Do all fathers ignore their families
Don't fathers care 
Aren't fathers supposed to protect you
Aren't they supposed to care how you feel
Aren't they supposed to want to see you happy
Will my whole life be like this 
I hate men
I hate him
They just walk over you 
They ignore you 
They treat you like trash
They only talk to you want they want something
They only do something expecting something bigger in return 
I gathered all the courage I freaking had to speak up and ask for what I wanted but then boom again brushed off and ignored 
I don't want to be hurt or sad 
I want to be productive and alive 
I am tired of living in fear and being scared all the time
I am so tired 
So tired 
So tired 😭💔

Depression

Today when I was at my shop with my father that moment one  small child came start asking for water that boy was without slipper first I told no to him (because of coronavirus ) water when I saw is eys I change my mind , then I try to give water to him but my father told me no  with anger but I try and that child was crying for water , I told that child to wait for few minutes my father was going home but that child left , after few minutes later when my father left . I removed 10 rupees and try to find that child I saw him I told him to come with me I will by him water but hi don't responsed to me and went , I have everything but told I lost my  I know that is my fault I should have fighting with my father. I started hurting myself .I can't stop thinking about him what I have done 

Loss

I never understood why I am scared of my father
He never yelled at me,he never verbally or physically abused me, he's a very chill dad,he never scold he for low grades
He always make me understand things very politely but then why am I so scared of him

3am Thoughts

Does anyone know why I feel uncomfortable around my dad, I never know what to say. I want to have a good relationship with him but It's always so awkward. 
so I and my dad aren't close there are some talks but its never a full conversation. When I was little I would only see him on Sundays but he would be pretty tired so we didn't really spend time with him. Now he works less and comes home around 7pm. But he goes to his room to watch his shows after eating. I just feel awkward being around him, I also don't like eating with him because he used to judge everything I ate, or if I served myself a lot of food. 
I don't want to feel like this but I can't help it and don't know why I feel like this either.

Family

Im having fights with my father. He always scolds me. He is not letting me follow my passion. What shall I do?
#help

So I am really bad at physics and I need extra help. I have found a tutor but he is asking for greens 💵. My dad is an alcoholic and he thinks he can make people stay by paying them and buying them gifts and loaning them. Which leads to fights out of frustration with us and you know what the worst part is - he thinks our happiness is way less important than the outside world's. Even so much so that he fights with us when people ask for loans and he loans them a huge amount. And everyone uses him and I have to help him through his turmoil only to hear hurting words. I Don't ask for much. All is ask for is food shelter and love. And I am so scared to even ask him to hire that tutor because he might start drinking again and I would have to be tortured again. 

Life

Hi. My father is unemployed. He doesn't work. He doesn't earn. And for the past 1 year he didn't even go outside the house. He remains inside the house 24 hours. He lies in bed all day long. Me and my mother is very tensed. I have my college starting from next month. If this continues then I won't be able to leave my house and study and live in another city peacefully. Me and my mom are going through a lot. We are unable to sleep and eat for all these stress. I don't know if he will be able to give my college fees also. But I don't want to destroy my future. He doesn't even want to see a therapist. It feels like He don't want to take any responsibilities. I'm going through a hard time. Plz I need some help and advice. 

I don't know how to deal with anxiety and stress that I am feeling because of my verbally abusive father. I often get panic attacks and anxiety attacks due to this matter. My dad is verbally abusive and sometimes he physicaly abuses my siblings. As I have other health problems he is not punishing me physically as he used to do. But the verbal abuse is enough for getting one's entire day ruined. I feel like to escape from my home. But I don't have guts to do that. My dad loves us but he doesn't know how to express it. Even if he is sad he doesn't know how to express it. What ever emotional situation that he maybe going through he only knows to express it by releasing anger and frustration. Although I know my dad loves us I think I might not be able to stay in my home for long because his behaviour is also effecting my mental health and studies. I need help and suggestions from someone on how to tackle this situation.

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