I’m 22. My mom went to her home and came back all fumed up because they said that I’m becoming too old and should be married off soon. They told her that my beauty will be gone soon and no guy will like me or marry me. And now she’s saying that my beauty has faded off.
Sreejit P. @sreejit_pillai
Hey buddy,
Don’t panic out. Speak with your mom and tell her that you’re currently focusing 0 with your career and future life. At this point marriage isn’t a matter of concern for you… You need time and not ready for this… Just make her understand and I assure she’ll give it a thought… I hope this helps… Let me know if you need any further guidance
Yes, I did and I hope she understands
Sreejit P. @sreejit_pillai
She would for sure… Don’t stress much… Things would be in your way in a time… Let things heal up…
Can I ask you something?
Sreejit P. @sreejit_pillai
Sure thing you can!
I understand how frustrating it can be when others express opinions that don’t align with your own. Remember that their views on your beauty and marriage timeline are just that – their views. Your worth isn’t determined solely by those opinions. You have so much to offer beyond appearance, and your value goes far beyond what they’re suggesting. Feel free to dm with me if you’d like to discuss this further.
Thank you. I’m already stressed out cause I’m in the middle of job hunt and it’s hard to find a job as a fresher ugh and she brings this up
I can totally understand. But you have to realise it’s your mother who has to understand and validate your feelings.
You should open up with her and have an honest conversation. Meanwhile if you need any help you can DM me or there’re people in this platform who’ll help
But u were a kid a year back lol
Why do u sound like a guy . Ashick lol
Shut UP. Keep your assumptions with yourself cause people here have actual PROBLEMS and you are assuming on other’s post rather than saying something nice.
Dont put too much thought on what your mother is saying about looks and marriage. You focus on your job search. Thoughts keep evolving. Once u get a decent job, these things do get chnaged
