Iβm 21 years old but my height is 4.9" and ny weight is also just 40. I look a 13 year old kid. Because of this Iβve very low self esteem and I donβt meet any new people. I joined an organization to remove this fear and tomorrow is the first meet-up. Tomorrow they organized a treasure hunt and I opted to volunteer. I cannot back out now. But Iβm having self doubts now and think people will judge me and say Iβm not capable for this. What should I do?
Hey boy / girl relax do not get insecure you capability depends upon you not how you look or your height why to talk stress and think what others would think abt arey let them think na what will happen nothing you are strong u can face them and let them judge so what u have the guts and you can do it and do it for yourself
Hey. Thank you for your support. This means alot. Iβm just worried that if things go otherwise itβll lower my self confidence more.
See itβs all in your mind if u will think everything is going to be alright then it will be alright do not think negative my champ
Thank you :)
Mention not brother whenever u need just tell me okay
Do not back out .
There is nothing to be insecure about you pretty just the way you are. If you are scared of being judged let me tell you people there judgment is not going to effect you in anyway.
Wear your confidence and go .
Hey. This means alot. I just hope for the best.
Riya Ghosh @riyaghosh
First of all, how can you decide that you canβt do it without even trying?
Donβt worry, i know u can do it.
Just give your 100% efforts.
Beleive me, i know u can:)
Good luck, and yea donβt forget to tell me how it was <3
Thank you. This is so sweet of you. I surely will. I hope for the best.
Riya Ghosh @riyaghosh
All the best:)
Hope you make everyone of us proud.
It went pretty well. People were very friendly and supportive.
Riya Ghosh @riyaghosh
Great! Look how good everything was! But u were loosing hope, before even trying:(. Think if u had quit at first, then now you may have regretted.
Now always remember that never loose hope especially before not trying.
I cannot agree more. Thank you so much for your support.
Even I am like that , even I donβt meet new people , even if I meet they ignore , so I started knowing worth , can you share the online meets like this if you know like in which you have joined , as I can tooβ¦
Hey. I can feel you. This isnβt online meet.
Go for it and see what happens! The biggest regret in life is to never try things out because βlog kya kahengeβ.
You might even find supportive people among the bunch.
I fear if thing go otherwise, itβll lower my self esteem more.
Prepare for the worst and hope for the best :)
There will always be haters and naysayers in life. But you can always silence them with your actions and results.