I’m 19 but have a bad crush on a guy who’s married and is 13 years older than me. I feel very guilty about it but I can’t help but feel the way that I feel. I’m afraid that he’s either leading me on unintentionally or that I’m just overthinking and misreading things. I know that a crush sounds like something to not be concerned about but I do not want to destroy his marriage.
Broo 🙂 can I literally tell you I’m in kinda same but not exactly same wala situation like you …n tbh it’s scary and shitty but also idk why but i feel way more than mature from what I was before but also alot of times I feel broken…i feel alot of cocktail things tbh … trust me 🥀
Oh me …I’m attached to a guy who’s 9 years older than me …n it’s kinda reallyy good to be with him …all the time he’s working but at the end of the day he tries to spend some time with me … the age gap is the serious matter here that’s it …n also he’s pretty close to getting married at any moment like family pressure n aarange marriage thing…but idk why the fuck he also says that he can wait for some years anyhow just to be with me …all this is very confusing I swear…i m confused literally…that what should I actually do in this Situation
Why would I hate you anyways… infact I felt we are kinda kinda same situation…but see i understand what you wrote already…tbh that’s the constant thought in my mind but also seeing his efforts for me every fucking day …i dk is he playing or he’s serious idk anything… he’s treating me tbh with at most respect … he’s introduced me to his parents also and also some of his friends and prabhuji at our temple…idk tbh I’m confused… he’s doing all this things for what …i literally dk
Family pressure means not his parents actually but the shitty relatives keeps on asking questions beta shadi yeh vo blah blah…n also he explained me his family situations and what not thinnggss…but at the end of the day having such a relationship is not appropriate I feel …it’s confusing, amazing, hurting alot of mixed things together
Haha … mine’s ulta ig …it all started with temple only …and now it’s been 8 months …n temple is the key to make our bond much more stronger myb …like temples been the most important thingy in our lives
I’m fucking attached to him …n tbh idk what to do …like i dk should I stop or should I continue!! …it’s almost very difficult for me to leave him ig
No no …we kinda use to see eachother regularly at the store …and slowly we started visiting to temple regularly
Do not get involved with someone who is married it will end up very badly. And specially do not involve with guys who are way too old for you when you’re only 19. You’ll end up becoming a victim of grooming.