If you're tired, then leave. Don't make things complicated 'coz I'm not a foøl.

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Who's else's older brother is overprotective?

Family

After a couple of years of being together my partner tells me that they are not as attracted to me as they were before and that they are not sure if they should still be involved with me romantically. They have felt this way for some time now but was just too scared to tell me because they did not want to hurt my feelings. They felt like we have ran out of things in common or things to talk about. Is it just me or there really comes a point in a relationship where things go from fun and exciting firsts to comfortable and secure committed phase? I think that when the honeymoon phase is over there comes the hard part where being with someone becomes a conscious decision and not just based entirely on feelings. Choosing to be committed, to stay in love with someone. Not running off the moment its no longer entertaining for you.   

Hi, I'm scared of concept of marriage
Why?
I see my parents and I feel girl can never be happy in marriage. Although I have seen few of my friends who are happy after their marriage
But when I see my parents I am shattered about this concept, they fight like hell everyday, my dad beats up my mom and my mom shouts
Last night when this fight happened I went and hit my dad, in turn he slapped me and told me to listen to whatever he says and do whatever he says in life
My family is male dominated and I am scared to get married

Marriage

So last night I stalked my ex from an alternate Instagram account and noticed he is seeing someone else. Let me give you all some context he the most selfish person on the planet a cheating, lying bastard. And I do not want to get back with him despite his several attempts to reconcile in the past, still his new girl's comments and his reply to them hurt and made me mad, i tried telling myself I feel this way because I feel bad for the girl and yes i do on a small scale but the truth is, I could feel that this time was different, that he actually does care for her somehow. Which means he is not completely the monster I thought him to be, don't get me wrong the guy is a complete jackass but maybe he changed for her? And that hurts because why not for me? I treated him better than he deserved and he knew it and yet he didn't change I just feel lost and vulnerable. I don't love the guy or want him back but i can't see him happy with someone else because after the way he treated me he doesn't deserve that happiness. Any advice or anything or even nice words idk?

3am Thoughts

ugh had the creepiest customer today. i noticed he kept staring at me and i was really hoping that i wouldn’t have to be the one ringing him up but of course i was. he was really weird with like this weird smile and he goes “just wondering how young are you?” and it really creeped me out bc why would he ask me my age that way?? i told him i was 18 and he was like “oh that’s a beautiful age. girls like you must have lots of fun!” and i just nodded in like a please stop talking to me way. i rang him up as fast as i could and i handed him his receipt he like touched my hand and i quickly pulled it away and he goes “i don’t bite sweetheart” and ewwww it was just the weirdest thing it sent chills down my spine. 

Other

I face everything by my own and didn't admit i need help bcoz I'd rather struggle than burden to other people with my problems......haha i want someone to talk m the same time i don't want to do so i want share but unable to do so hell 

Confusion

I'm feeling horrible lately. It all started with my parents. Recently my gums has been infected [its receding and and there's a burning sensation on my tongue,lips, and gums (anybody know what is this disease? been googling and the result is only sensodyne and listerine ads)] and I told my parents about it. All they did were giving their own remedy, which is USELESS and NOT HELPFUL AT ALL.  I did slowtalked to them - telling them their remedies are useless which only led them being mad at me. We haven't talk for 3 days now. How do I deal with this? I can't even go to the doctors due to the lockdown.

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