If you had the liberty to choose one trait in your parent what would that be? 

(Remaining all traits would be randomly selected)

A small irrelevant event. My dad was mad at me yesterday because I had fever and wanted to get dengue tested. 

Great guy overall, really look upto him. But is sometimes very cold hearted. 

to atleast try understanding the modern age issues w kids.

have thr own life aswell, instead of just being parents.
Seriously my mom feels guilty of going out cuz she think who is gonna feed me n my bro (ps we r adults).

Relationships

Some people do believe that 'Sexual Infidelity' shouldn't be a deal breaker in relationship! 
What do you have to say about that?

3am Thoughts

The best feeling I ever have is to get drunk.

Alcohol

I have a request for all the good people here... please leave a good suggestion for me in the comments...i am a learner and would love to listen and learn about anything regarding life and all. 

Have a useful day✌️😃

Affirmations

Till those two vehicles crossed each other 

Hello 

Friends

I just really need ANY advice for my specific situation. I’ve looked online, talked to friends, and have a therapist but it still feels like such a hopeless situation and it’s really impacted my ability to properly care for myself. 

What you need to know: 
- I’m a recent college graduate living w/ my parents, can’t move out due to (1) the virus (2) no car/can’t drive (3) no job

- Can’t remember much of my childhood, but after getting a therapist last summer I’ve discovered that my mother was neglectful; often leaving me at school for hours on end, not answering her phone for school/friend’s parents, and purposefully pulling us out’ve after school programs because it was too much work for her

- My mother is a stay-at-home, narcissistic, hoarder who isolated me to only depend on her. Only recently has my father tried to intervene, but he’s also beat down from her calling the police on him (lied he hit her) and made the mistake of sharing a bank account with her (this was done halfway into the marriage to “show trust” on his part). 


My problem:
I’m stuck in my room all day because I’m physically affected by even seeing/hearing my mom after realizing all this awful stuff about her, it’s completely replaced the image I had of her. My dad is very emotionally distant as are my siblings, the friends I’ve reached out to sympathize but aren’t much better. I’ve been dealing with this for so long that it really feels hopeless and that’s affecting my ability to really do...anything. I sleep for longer/don’t go to bed, fail to take regular showers/brush teeth/skin care/etc, and avoid the kitchen and therefor food because she’s always there. I just avoid doing anything (job hunting, cleaning my room, continue learning to drive) because even if I make progress on any of those it doesn’t make me happy because the bigger problem is always there. Any tips? Similar stories? 


Narcissism

You know what's worst? 
Waiting whole day for that one person to talk but they don't even give a shit! 

One Sided Love

Idk why some days his memories keep haunting me! 😓

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