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Anonymous

If you are in love with a person and that person is busy with their work and she talks for only 10 minutes per day. Also, it’s a long distance relationship.
My point is I don’t feel that those ten minutes are enough. But I also understand she has her studies and everything and she is always very calm and makes me understand things. But I don’t know how long can I go on trying to be happy with this ten minutes thing.

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Niklaus @niklaus_

There is no such thing called Long Distance Relationship… Its a trap and it’s a difficult trap to avoid .

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Anonymous

So one should just breakup ?

Niklaus @niklaus_

Its upto you… long distance only brings misery. Life is really short and why waste it…

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Anonymous

But I really love that person
That’s what is making me wonder to either hold on or let go

Niklaus @niklaus_

You are also thinking about letting go. Right?
If it was true love you won’t be here asking strangers what to do… you are better than this.

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Anonymous

See I love her
I want to know about letting go as I can’t think of someone being so busy that she doesn’t even have time to spare. Sometimes I just want to video call and talk. But she is so busy that she just can’t and it makes things so much hard.

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Anonymous

Love can be from a distance also then
I can’t see her putting that much efforts as I am putting.

Niklaus @niklaus_

You know your answer . If you already feel you deserve better… Love is sometime just an illusion too… Be with her and you will get it

Niklaus @niklaus_

I HV been there… i wish you good luck…

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Anonymous

Could you please tell me what did u do or how did it work out for you ?

Niklaus @niklaus_

I let her go and get another girl … working fine for me …its simple… but I am not saying you should do that too … Do what your heart wants . But always put yourself first… Caring for someone is really a nice feeling but it makes you weak … If you can afford that then stick with her .

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Anonymous

I understand
Thanks :)

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Anonymous

Buddy, we’re in same situation!

It was our anniversary today all I had asked is to meet!
He did not know it was our anniversary.
But when I told him over the phone he didn’t even care to wish! I’m laughing on myself right now lol

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Anonymous

That hurts just reading it. This is just heights now…

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Anonymous

I’m just so, so, so much used to it now :')

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Anonymous

Why can’t u let go then ?
Clearly he isn’t bothered :(

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Anonymous

There are lots of mixed signals man

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Anonymous

Are you sure of him tho ?
N is he sure of you ?
Sometimes a person is genuinely busy and has a lot on their plate. But to understand that u need clarity of the above two questions

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Anonymous

I’m not sure of him but he says he is sure about me a hell lot.
But then acts like this. That is why I said lots of mixed signals are there

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Anonymous

Well the actions aren’t in line with what he is saying…
You know better what to do

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Anonymous

Yeah!

I guess we’re stuck because of the same reason haha

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Anonymous

You and I I mean

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Anonymous

I guess yeah :(

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