If you are in love with a person and that person is busy with their work and she talks for only 10 minutes per day. Also, it’s a long distance relationship.
My point is I don’t feel that those ten minutes are enough. But I also understand she has her studies and everything and she is always very calm and makes me understand things. But I don’t know how long can I go on trying to be happy with this ten minutes thing.
Niklaus @niklaus_
There is no such thing called Long Distance Relationship… Its a trap and it’s a difficult trap to avoid .
So one should just breakup ?
Niklaus @niklaus_
Its upto you… long distance only brings misery. Life is really short and why waste it…
But I really love that person
That’s what is making me wonder to either hold on or let go
Niklaus @niklaus_
You are also thinking about letting go. Right?
If it was true love you won’t be here asking strangers what to do… you are better than this.
See I love her
I want to know about letting go as I can’t think of someone being so busy that she doesn’t even have time to spare. Sometimes I just want to video call and talk. But she is so busy that she just can’t and it makes things so much hard.
Love can be from a distance also then
I can’t see her putting that much efforts as I am putting.
Niklaus @niklaus_
You know your answer . If you already feel you deserve better… Love is sometime just an illusion too… Be with her and you will get it
Niklaus @niklaus_
I HV been there… i wish you good luck…
Could you please tell me what did u do or how did it work out for you ?
Niklaus @niklaus_
I let her go and get another girl … working fine for me …its simple… but I am not saying you should do that too … Do what your heart wants . But always put yourself first… Caring for someone is really a nice feeling but it makes you weak … If you can afford that then stick with her .
I understand
Thanks :)
Buddy, we’re in same situation!
It was our anniversary today all I had asked is to meet!
He did not know it was our anniversary.
But when I told him over the phone he didn’t even care to wish! I’m laughing on myself right now lol
That hurts just reading it. This is just heights now…
I’m just so, so, so much used to it now :')
Why can’t u let go then ?
Clearly he isn’t bothered :(
There are lots of mixed signals man
Are you sure of him tho ?
N is he sure of you ?
Sometimes a person is genuinely busy and has a lot on their plate. But to understand that u need clarity of the above two questions
I’m not sure of him but he says he is sure about me a hell lot.
But then acts like this. That is why I said lots of mixed signals are there
Well the actions aren’t in line with what he is saying…
You know better what to do
Yeah!
I guess we’re stuck because of the same reason haha
You and I I mean
I guess yeah :(