If you are away from your parents in a different geography, don't consult them on how to live your life. Even and especially when you are bored. It's a temptation and never gets you anywhere. 

Personal Growth

Someone meet and skate w/ meeeee👀

ADHD

Maybe I need to love myself more.

Insecurity

Need someone 

Love

Ever felt a different high after having a great conversation with a friend over a great coffee ? 

Friends

I was in a relationship for the past 5 years. It went all good But for the last 1 and a half years. He never took any effort to meet or even call. But whenever I call him, he talks to me lovely, caring. If I did not call him he will never call me but if asked he says I don't wanna disturb you because you are preparing for govt exams. At first, I thought he is giving me my own space. Later I felt like he lost interest or had some personal problem. I insisted to share with me but he refused. I shared my feelings saying that it hurts you ignore me and suddenly he starts pointing out that im the problem. I'm expecting more. But all I expected was just a normal call at least once a week and checking up on each other. I always call him and after a certain point, I felt like I am forcing the person to talk and to love. I stopped calling him first and he did not call me back. But  I called him today after a month and said I can't able to handle it, I just want an honest answer about what's going on. Is the relationship alive? I was angry and started crying and begged him to show the love we had. He said to control my anger.  does sharing my feelings, thoughts, and my life without him come under anger issues?  He also added that he loves me so much...but his actions are different. I love him so much. All I want to know is if am I holding him or forcing him to love me when all his actions hurt me. ?  

Confusion

Is it just me who loves cuddles and closeness but hates physical touch at the same time?

So I am a feminist and truly believe in equality and no gender roles. This guy I've been dating says he is one too, but his actions and words say otherwise. I tried talking to him about it, but he doesn't seem to get my point. For example: I was like in the future we live together, who would do the household things? I was expecting an answer that it would be a shared responsibility and do it together or something along the lines. However his response was, "I'll help out if you need me to". Maybe I'm overthinking it, but this does not sound like someone that believes in equality and shared responsibilities. I brought this up with him, but he doesn't seem go get my point. Am I over thinking? 

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