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Sansthita @sansthita

If someone is being toxic, don’t argue with them. Just say: Kaun hai tu? Hai tu kidhaar ka? Jaise aaya waise hi wapaas nikal ja.
Toxic people don’t deserve your energy. Love to everyone who have toxic people in their lives

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Anonymous

What if they’re your own parents?

Sansthita @sansthita

Just say to yourself: I am gonna be better when I become a parent.

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Anonymous

And what about the toxicity I’m living with. Do you think I’m gonna be normal with this toxicity till i have my own childrens?

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Anonymous

Try to interact with them as minimum as possible…

Sansthita @sansthita

Hey there hun. I saw your comment and I hear you. And I am really sorry that you are going through the same. It’s horrible to live in a toxic household and I have had so many friends struggle through it. It’s a miserable space to be in. And I am so proud of you for still standing strong throughout it all. I hear you and your question is a valid one. The answer is: if you are mindful enough, you will be. Also do try taking therapy. Go for meditation and try getting a Job as soon as you can so that you can have independence. Sending you loads of love and strength. And hugs too. 🫂🫂🫂 Just to reiterate- it takes strength to go through what you are facing now

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Anonymous

I’m from India. I live with my parents. Since I’m the only one staying with them, i can’t avoid any of them. I have to interact with them at every moment.

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Anonymous

If you are in college then please live in hostel…and as sansthita said try to be financially independent as soon as possible.

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Anonymous

Okay what does hun means i really don’t know about that sorry😅, secondly i do have a job and i do meditation too. But none of the thing is solving any problem. Going to the therapy?? I don’t think that’s an option for me. I appreciate your help but…no worries. Thank you though.

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Anonymous

Try to get therapy…it really helps alot

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Anonymous

What’s gonna change if i get financially independent? I can’t leave my parents no matter how they are. They maybe not a good parents but I’m atleast a good son.

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Anonymous

Thank you for your suggestion. But as i said it’s not an option for me.

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Anonymous

I’m not saying to leave them…just interact with them as minimum as possible…

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Anonymous

Why

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Anonymous

As i said I’m the only one living with them. So i do have to interact with them. You can’t just ignore anyone who are living with you in the same house right.

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Anonymous

Umm…how about having a little privacy here? I’ll appreciate it.

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Anonymous

So you can work in other city…and you can hire any maid for your household chores… it’ll help your parents also…and as you are living with them you don’t have to interact with them whole day

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Anonymous

Yeah that would be a good point. Only if that’s just an easy thing to do. It’s not as easy for me to do it.

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Anonymous

Sorry but it will be better if we don’t get in any kind of contact. I’m sorry hope you understand.

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Anonymous

It’s ok

Sansthita @sansthita

Hun means honey. And you are welcome. I wish you healing. Take care.

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Advik @advik_k

You are creating a moment actually. You need to calm.

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