If someone hurts you and then makes u feel like its ur fault and then when you try to tell them how much it hurts and how could they do that to you and etc etc and then they torture you for dragging it.
My frst question is, Is this dragging, asking them questions about their own doing?
Second is, is something really wrong with me?
Third,is it really my fault, that i got hurt this much that i went to same person who is btw not realizing what he has done and ask him how he can do that to me?
Heyyy! Firstly if this person is trying to blame you for you feeling a certain way then no matter who this is, you need to stop talking to them or set some clear boundaries. You’re clearly hurt by their behaviour and this is not something you should be tolerating. You’re not wrong for feeling an emotion, no you’re not dragging at all.
It’s not your fault that you went to the person who hurt you to feel validated and you wanted them to know of how hurt you were, the right people never respond the way they did, they would always be open to having a conversation around something you’re hurt with. So you should know you’re not setting a boundary and you are most definitely giving this person more importance/space in your life than they require. So take a moment and the next time they make you feel this way, know that you deserve a better treatment than this! :)
A big and warm hug to you for saying this🧡
Right back at you! ❤ ❤