If someone doesn’t value you. Only want to their chores and all. Do they really care for you. Should only mind business with them like no string attached?
You talk to them if they are important people. If they still dont reapond positively you leave them .
And they dont find their mistakes and somehow put all the blame on you. And at the end of the day they will prove as you are short tempered
Thats gaslighting. Do they make you convince yourself that youre the bad person all the time ? If the answer is a yes then its a red flag . You gotta communicate properly in that case. Involve close people (family ) maybe.
Everything is so messed up somehow everyone makes it looks like I need to compromise all the time. Anyway trying to live that way like single life like flatmates