If I get sick, I don't expect him to be by my side. He often leaves when we have fights, so I don't expect that he will take care of me when the time comes. 

I hope you find something even more beautiful than you have today !

That means that he doesn't love you from his heart ig...

Emotional Abuse

Everything in my life was just fine i had good friend boyfriend but i dnt know what happen to them like something really missing between us just because we are far my friends has cut bound with me and they dont contact me at all it has been 1 year . And my boyfriend house is nearby by our relation was going well too and its going to be 2 years soon but its has been week since he have not messaging me at all but when send me himself a chat list of his he was chatting with his friends like i dnt know what to say i am just speechless all those time when he was ignoring me he was chatting with others for 4 fours at afternoon i waited for him like nothing . What should i do ? i am so confused that i dnt have anyone to share i just seeking for help . I dont want to breakup cause he is the one i got after my friends he is the only person whom i share my feelings.

Friends

A few months ago, I confessed to my friend that I liked him. He said that he did not think of me in a romantic way and we continued to be friends. A few months after that, I met him at a work conference. He was being extremely sweet and expressive. He asked me if I missed him, what made me like him in the first place etc etc. I have known for a while that he has attachment and commitment issues as a result of childhood trauma and growing up in a broken family. Therefore I had made peace with the fact that we would never work out. At the conference, he took me out on dates, was extremely sensitive and expressed that he shared a comfort with me that he did not share with anyone. I would continue to go on dates with him and I’d repeatedly tell him that what we were doing was not logical. He’d ask me to live in the moment. When I asked him about the future… He said he didn’t know what would happen but he enjoyed spending time with me. After we parted our ways, he said he wanted to remain friends but was not sure if he would want to be in a relationship. He said that he never felt the need of having someone by his side and that I should not be hopeful. He asked me if we could remain close friends. After this, I spoke to him and told him that it would be impossible for me to think of him as “just a friend”. I told him that he cannot have the best of both Worlds and that it was either going to be all in or nothing. As I reflect upon this, I think to myself… Was I too harsh? Maybe I should have given it some time. But again, why dwell in ambiguity and hope. There’s so much more to life. Was I stupid and impatient?!

Relationships

Am mentally disturb i will straight come to my point what i feel i may look mean selfish but.. I m disturb right now. It's all about my relationship with whom I am. It's just that nothing excites me as i am angry within myself mann hi mann type. So basically i feel why i dont get surprises idk,secondly whenever he speaks like larkiya marengi mujpar, larki larki which doesn't even exist i get frustrated because he is teasing me everydy with same content he have in his mind. It's kinda hurting me am overthinking m over doing everything. He is handsome i feel like m not.. To be honest i get bad comments in my past so m lacking behind i dont feel beautiful so i overthink idk wtf m writing here but m disturb 

So there was this guy, we used to talk well, he used to flirt vicariously, We have sexted once about a couple of weeks ago even, every time he spoke to me told me how interesting I was, how hot I was and bla bla and how he was looking forward to dating me. We used to talk on calls, within a couple of days of the last call he said he was committed to a girl as in they got into a 'serious relationship', Why even bother leading on someone and what sort of loyalty or honesty is that towards the other girl, I asked him to delete my contact information as soon as I got to know even though he still wanted to be friends.

Feeling super low, I am going through a very rough time. I have been married for 11 years with my partner and known him since 16 years now(did college together).
Over the years our companionship changed a lot, we donot understand each other at all now. Frequent arguments make things even worse. The biggest thing that's hurts me is his rude behaviour as I donot find him soft spoken since recent years, which brings tears to my eyes. We discussed many times that he needs to manage his stress  not pass on by being rude with me which he agreed many times and told he will work on it. But since there are more moments of our arguments than good times, it's been frequent that he saw his mistake and came back with a sorry realizing he could nt manage his temper. I trusted him, but since last 1 year,he feels that I want to hear sorry and his apology and now even he shouts or becomes rude, he disagrees with the fact, that he is never rude and I am making fuss out of nothing or I have made him like that over years as its always his mistake 😒. I tell him that over years its important that partners should actively work on their relationships, communicate not only what oneself wants but also sometimes think and do for their partner to show love and care. I try as much as possible to support him in his desires, wishes but he says he feels pressure that he needs to work on something for me. He says I should know he loves me and I should try to understand him.. But isn't it too much, ain't I a human too? Shouldn't I expect care and respectful behaviour? How should I behave when I see I am the one who has to understand, understand and understand always whether its rude behaviour, arguments, disagreements, misbehaviour from in laws in the past, as if anything I say or ask I am told that I  want to blame him for nothing, he doesn't agree later that he was loud. He is not there in my broken moments too, he feels more frustrated and walks out.. I have nobody to speak my heart, I want to cry holding him, but he is not there, he is busy proving me wrong and expressing how pissed off he gets seeing my cry. Many times we thought of a divorce and move out, but we both couldnt go ahead. But I feel so lonely and broken, I yearn to speak out about all that I feel ask what should I do? I cannot go to people who know me, as then they will start judging which also feels bad, hope here in this platform I donot get judged🤞

Marriage

Hi, 
I'm a grown 21yrs old girl and I'm going through some issues related to my romantic relationship. I was accused by my partner that I wasn't giving him enough attention and that he felt 'alone' in the relationship. However, I've tried all I can to show him that I love him. I shall agree that I wasn't able to give him a lot of attention because I come from a very fucked up family and I think I'm dealing with depression too. So, my partner decided we should break up but says that he still loves me and cares about me which I do too. But he's not willing to give us another chance. I figured what he's doing is called manipulation. I also know what should be done to get over him but I can't because I'm still so hopeful. So so so hopeful. 

Mental Illness

Emotional stress! 
I have been with my boyfriend since almost 3 years... We both always wanted a serious relationship, in which we are rn... Two weeks ago we had a huge fight and which led me to take a decision either to end it or to make it official by telling my parents, our circumstances were such that I was left with these two options due to trust issues on my end... He agreed to make it official... We decided and I delivered the message to my parents... As a couple we knew that there was 95% chance they will reject bcoz we as a couple are different in all the aspects... Like culture, caste, language, state and what not... But fortunately my parents didn't react much at that time, my dad handled the situation maturely but mom went numb and wasn't talking to me... But bcoz I thought my dad supports our relationship things eased a little bit and now we got close even more as a couple... We were the happiest tbh... Had no idea that this would be a short term euphoria. And now the time has come to part ways with such a short notice period bcoz of my mom's concerns/crying... We have such beautiful memories together. It is so difficult for me to get over him. Knowing that nobody is wrong or nobody is to be blamed yet everything is wrong somewhere... All I know is, I can see things falling apart and all I can do is just watch it fall/end... This feeling is one of the worst feeling... I have tried every damn thing to save our relationship but in the end I didn't get any reward...I feel helpless... Idk what to do. please, help me out with your suggestions. 

Hi everyone, my bf broke up with me. He doesn't want it anymore. He thinks we can be friends later but we aren't compatible or we aren't good as life partner to each other. I'm letting go. 

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