If for instance you miss your boyfriend over phone call though heโs been distant lately and he just gets irritated by your constant whining him to talk like before and snaps at you, what would you do? ( heโs not ready to let go of you either and also you are already engaged to him and this behavior has been ongoing for over a month now)
Aamir khan @zackl
You should probably let him know that itโs hurting you,snapping at every little thing isnโt helpful,communication is key in a relation.If he still doesnโt change,sorry to say,but the relation ainโt worth it.
True
I already let him know and cried to him over phone numerous times. We have been in long distance relationship for over 5 years now and also we are engaged but my parents are urging him to marry sooner. One month ago he started acting distant and irritated. And from there I couldnโt get proper sleep( mostly sleepless nights), I have overwhelming thoughts of him and confusion.
Maybe heโs not ready to get married โฆ But I donโt know cause I have not been in the situation yet โฆ Sorry I canโt give you a useful advice maybe try telling your bff bout this and maybe try asking your boyfriend again
Aamir khan @zackl
If heโs getting distant,it seems to be some other problem,just tell him point blank,if he cannot handle the relation,to end it,you keep your mental peace,baat shaadi Tak aagayi hain,he needs to understand your point of view as well,you cannot keep leaning all the time,keep your self respect.
yomama @robb_stark
Better Tell him in a stern voice whatโs exactly is happening and itโs bothering you .
Do you want to quit or make this happen
Iโm still not ready to let him go. There are just so many memories with him but I also understand that Iโm losing my self respect also in the process. Itโs just that he used to care for me a lot once. Itโs so painful and honestly I donโt know what to do. I have tried to ignore him but I just canโt. I return him within a span of 3 days. If he says heโs ready to let me go, Iโll accept his decision. I feel like heโs confused but hurting me also along the way.
yomama @robb_stark
Ignore him for now ,Give him some space .
If he needs you then he will come back to you
Okayy
yomama @robb_stark
And maybe just for now ,start texting someone else .
Just to keep yourself busy
Or maybe get indulge into some work and make yourself super busy
Yes, Iโm distracting myself in work.
yomama @robb_stark
You are on right path then ,No worries
Tarannum @tanu2202
Most guys do thatโฆonce theyโve spent enough time with you and know that youโre not gonna leave them, they start taking you for granted and find other things to doโฆtheyโll never understand how much itโs hurting you. Iโve never met a guy whoโs willing to put the same efforts as you. Thereโs no use chasing them. Theyโll get even more distant and once youโre fed up with that behaviour and finally decide to leave, theyโre gonna come back to you again and work things out. Idk whatโs wrong with them. Thatโs why I stay away from relationships
yomama @robb_stark
Spot on reply
yomama @robb_stark
Literally on point
