If for instance you miss your boyfriend over phone call though heβs been distant lately and he just gets irritated by your constant whining him to talk like before and snaps at you, what would you do? ( heβs not ready to let go of you either and also you are already engaged to him and this behavior has been ongoing for over a month now)
Aamir khan @zackl
You should probably let him know that itβs hurting you,snapping at every little thing isnβt helpful,communication is key in a relation.If he still doesnβt change,sorry to say,but the relation ainβt worth it.
True
I already let him know and cried to him over phone numerous times. We have been in long distance relationship for over 5 years now and also we are engaged but my parents are urging him to marry sooner. One month ago he started acting distant and irritated. And from there I couldnβt get proper sleep( mostly sleepless nights), I have overwhelming thoughts of him and confusion.
Maybe heβs not ready to get married β¦ But I donβt know cause I have not been in the situation yet β¦ Sorry I canβt give you a useful advice maybe try telling your bff bout this and maybe try asking your boyfriend again
Aamir khan @zackl
If heβs getting distant,it seems to be some other problem,just tell him point blank,if he cannot handle the relation,to end it,you keep your mental peace,baat shaadi Tak aagayi hain,he needs to understand your point of view as well,you cannot keep leaning all the time,keep your self respect.
yomama @robb_stark
Better Tell him in a stern voice whatβs exactly is happening and itβs bothering you .
Do you want to quit or make this happen
Iβm still not ready to let him go. There are just so many memories with him but I also understand that Iβm losing my self respect also in the process. Itβs just that he used to care for me a lot once. Itβs so painful and honestly I donβt know what to do. I have tried to ignore him but I just canβt. I return him within a span of 3 days. If he says heβs ready to let me go, Iβll accept his decision. I feel like heβs confused but hurting me also along the way.
yomama @robb_stark
Ignore him for now ,Give him some space .
If he needs you then he will come back to you
Okayy
yomama @robb_stark
And maybe just for now ,start texting someone else .
Just to keep yourself busy
Or maybe get indulge into some work and make yourself super busy
Yes, Iβm distracting myself in work.
yomama @robb_stark
You are on right path then ,No worries
Tarannum @tanu2202
Most guys do thatβ¦once theyβve spent enough time with you and know that youβre not gonna leave them, they start taking you for granted and find other things to doβ¦theyβll never understand how much itβs hurting you. Iβve never met a guy whoβs willing to put the same efforts as you. Thereβs no use chasing them. Theyβll get even more distant and once youβre fed up with that behaviour and finally decide to leave, theyβre gonna come back to you again and work things out. Idk whatβs wrong with them. Thatβs why I stay away from relationships
yomama @robb_stark
Spot on reply
yomama @robb_stark
Literally on point