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Anonymous

If for instance you miss your boyfriend over phone call though he’s been distant lately and he just gets irritated by your constant whining him to talk like before and snaps at you, what would you do? ( he’s not ready to let go of you either and also you are already engaged to him and this behavior has been ongoing for over a month now)

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Aamir khan @zackl

You should probably let him know that it’s hurting you,snapping at every little thing isn’t helpful,communication is key in a relation.If he still doesn’t change,sorry to say,but the relation ain’t worth it.

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Anonymous

True

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Anonymous

I already let him know and cried to him over phone numerous times. We have been in long distance relationship for over 5 years now and also we are engaged but my parents are urging him to marry sooner. One month ago he started acting distant and irritated. And from there I couldn’t get proper sleep( mostly sleepless nights), I have overwhelming thoughts of him and confusion.

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Anonymous

Maybe he’s not ready to get married … But I don’t know cause I have not been in the situation yet … Sorry I can’t give you a useful advice maybe try telling your bff bout this and maybe try asking your boyfriend again

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Aamir khan @zackl

If he’s getting distant,it seems to be some other problem,just tell him point blank,if he cannot handle the relation,to end it,you keep your mental peace,baat shaadi Tak aagayi hain,he needs to understand your point of view as well,you cannot keep leaning all the time,keep your self respect.

yomama @robb_stark

Better Tell him in a stern voice what’s exactly is happening and it’s bothering you .
Do you want to quit or make this happen

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Anonymous

I’m still not ready to let him go. There are just so many memories with him but I also understand that I’m losing my self respect also in the process. It’s just that he used to care for me a lot once. It’s so painful and honestly I don’t know what to do. I have tried to ignore him but I just can’t. I return him within a span of 3 days. If he says he’s ready to let me go, I’ll accept his decision. I feel like he’s confused but hurting me also along the way.

yomama @robb_stark

Ignore him for now ,Give him some space .
If he needs you then he will come back to you

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Anonymous

Okayy

yomama @robb_stark

And maybe just for now ,start texting someone else .
Just to keep yourself busy
Or maybe get indulge into some work and make yourself super busy

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Anonymous

Yes, I’m distracting myself in work.

yomama @robb_stark

You are on right path then ,No worries

Tarannum @tanu2202

Most guys do that…once they’ve spent enough time with you and know that you’re not gonna leave them, they start taking you for granted and find other things to do…they’ll never understand how much it’s hurting you. I’ve never met a guy who’s willing to put the same efforts as you. There’s no use chasing them. They’ll get even more distant and once you’re fed up with that behaviour and finally decide to leave, they’re gonna come back to you again and work things out. Idk what’s wrong with them. That’s why I stay away from relationships

yomama @robb_stark

Spot on reply

yomama @robb_stark

Literally on point

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