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confused and heartbroken
Okay tell me y r u confused nd heartbroken
My bf few months back decided yo join army it became his passion and dream but my dream is to settle abroad our goals were clashing so i decided to break up but i told him that I’m waiting for him he can try to give papers and interview if he clears I’m happy or if he plans to do something elae I’m there for him
But for him army is not a issue . Maybe for some girls it
May not be an issue but i have dreamed about settling abroad my whole life
Did i do wrong ?
No i guess you didn’t done anything wrong it’s like you have also dreams . everybody has there dreams some adjust some don’t we can’t do anything . But if you have a future with him have patience give him time to pursue what he wants . If not then just walk away it hurts i know but we can’t force anybody to live with us right ?
This happened 6 months back there was some communication problem but i tried explaining him this again and again and i was even waiting for him and then all of sudden he messages me we talked like normal friends he told me he changed his plans n all he even asked can we patch up i replied yes after that he said he was not in senses when he was talking i said okay but then he was sending all those cute romantic reels songs and we started chatting agin and then 2-3 days later he called and said he has moved on and that army is not a problem i backed off gave up too easily…was i
I really feel bad for hurting him in the 1st place but idk what to do now
None of my friends text me first. Even if I text something they just reply and don’t ask back anything. Idk y. Aren’t they interested talking to me. I feel so bad that no one wants to talk to me. Even my best friend does the same.